This Year, I’m Choosing Not to Expose My Children to Sad Films

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With recent events and political addresses aimed at reassuring the nation about safety and counter-terrorism efforts, many parents, including myself, are left feeling more anxious than comforted. Each news segment showcases stories of violence and chaos, making it clear that we are living in a complex and often frightening world. As parents in a society that should embody freedom and bravery, many of us are questioning the safety of our surroundings and the emotional well-being of our children.

In light of this reality, I initially thought a trip to the cinema would provide an enjoyable escape for my child and me. However, my perspective shifted dramatically after taking my daughter to see the newly released Pixar film, The Good Dinosaur. Although it carries a PG rating—like her favorite, Frozen—the content proved to be overwhelming. The film’s themes included parental loss, perilous creatures, and natural disasters, all of which left me questioning my decision to expose my daughter to such intense material.

The film’s emotional weight struck a chord with my daughter, leading her to tears as she processed the loss of the character’s father. This scene, while perhaps meant to convey a message of bravery, was deeply unsettling. It highlighted a troubling trend in children’s films that often start with dark themes, such as death and trauma, without proper context or warning for young viewers.

Children, particularly those in their formative years, should not be confronted with heavy emotional content without the opportunity for discussion and guidance. While my daughter typically handles intense scenes from other films well, this particular experience was different. The portrayal of loss was not uplifting; it was distressing, and it raised questions about the messages we are sending to our children about resilience in the face of hardship.

To combat this issue going forward, I plan to consult resources like Common Sense Media and Parent Previews before selecting films for my family. I want to ensure that the movies we choose are appropriate and free of excessive violence or trauma. Films like The Peanuts Movie or Alvin and the Chipmunks: The Road Chip seem more aligned with the lighthearted experiences I wish to share with my daughter.

In an age where school safety drills have become commonplace, shielding our children from undue fear and emotional distress through entertainment should be a priority. It is paramount that we advocate for age-appropriate content that allows children to enjoy their childhood without unnecessary exposure to harsh realities.

As we move forward, I encourage filmmakers to consider the emotional impact of their narratives on young audiences. Let’s work together to create environments—both in cinema and in our daily lives—that are nurturing and supportive of our children’s innocence and emotional health.

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Summary

The article discusses the importance of selecting age-appropriate films for children, highlighting the emotional impacts of themes related to loss and trauma in modern animated films. It advocates for a more thoughtful approach to children’s entertainment, ensuring that it fosters a safe and supportive environment for young viewers.

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