Since the onset of my menstruation—which occurred on the morning before a sixth-grade field trip to the UN, resulting in a rather embarrassing situation—I have been on a quest to simplify that monthly experience. I have sought to reduce the discomfort (often relying on three Advils at the first hint of cramps), lessen the fatigue (with a strict 10 p.m. bedtime on the first day), and diminish the unpleasantness associated with it.
Despite having embraced my period over the years—I’ve dealt with its monthly reminder of my femininity over 300 times—I still find certain aspects quite off-putting. I strive to make my period as uneventful as possible, which is why I often ignore my eco-conscious beliefs in favor of convenience, opting for brand-name plastic applicator tampons. The thought of using cardboard or o.b. tampons during my monthly cycle feels too risky to me.
This brings me to my confusion regarding women who are passionate advocates of the DivaCup.
For those unfamiliar, the DivaCup is defined as “a reusable, bell-shaped menstrual cup designed to be worn internally, sitting low in the vaginal canal to collect menstrual flow rather than absorb it.” Advocates highlight its cost-effectiveness, ease of use, environmental benefits, and even the ability to engage in intimate activities while using it (though that claim remains questionable). While I acknowledge my hesitance to insert my hand into my own anatomy, I still have numerous questions for those who prefer the DivaCup and its various off-brand alternatives with whimsical names like Bella Cup and Luna Cup.
1. How do you extract it without creating a mess?
Considering it’s a small vessel filled with blood and uterine lining, how do you manage to remove it without spilling? What precautions do you take to avoid an embarrassing situation, especially if you’re not at home?
2. What occurs when it reaches capacity?
The DivaCup promises up to 12 hours of leak-free protection. What happens after that? If a tampon is left in too long, it can stain your underwear, but with the DivaCup, is it a different, more alarming scenario?
3. What’s the protocol in a public restroom?
When you remove the DivaCup in a public stall and dispose of its contents, how do you manage cleaning it? Do you wash it at the sink with others around, and how do you deal with potential judgment from fellow restroom patrons?
4. What about your fingernails?
Handling the cup means dealing with blood—how do you maintain nail hygiene afterward? Do you carry a cleaning tool to ensure your nails remain pristine?
5. What’s the content of the cup?
I’m curious about the mixture of solid and liquid that accumulates. No need for graphic details, but a general idea would satisfy my curiosity.
6. Do you clean it in the dishwasher?
I once put a toilet plunger in the dishwasher and was advised to discard the appliance afterward. How do you ensure the cleanliness of your DivaCup? Do you follow the manufacturer’s instructions regarding maintenance?
7. What about odor?
The DivaCup website claims menstrual fluid only develops an odor when exposed to air. But what happens if it spills or overflows? How do you manage potential odors during these instances?
8. What if it gets stuck or falls out?
While it’s unlikely, what would you do if the DivaCup becomes lodged? How would you handle it if it accidentally dislodges at an inopportune moment, such as while swimming?
9. Did you gradually transition to the DivaCup?
Was your journey to the DivaCup a gradual progression, or did you dive right in without prior experience?
10. Do you miss shopping for menstrual products?
I suspect the answer is no. You likely enjoy avoiding the awkwardness of purchasing feminine hygiene products at the store.
11. Do you think I’m unreasonable for being hesitant?
I often feel conflicted about my discomfort with menstrual blood and my desire to contribute less waste to the environment. I admire those who embrace this aspect of their bodies, and I wonder if I’m missing out on an empowering experience.
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In summary, my curiosity about the DivaCup stems from a mix of admiration and apprehension. I recognize the benefits and practicality it offers, yet my personal discomfort with the concept leaves me questioning whether I could ever make the switch.