As a parent, you might expect your kindergartner’s biggest worries to revolve around playful topics like what snacks to bring for lunch or the latest collectible toys. However, you may find yourself taken aback when your child poses profound questions about existence. Recently, my daughter, at just five years old, asked me, “Why am I here? What is my purpose in this world?”
This unexpected inquiry left me momentarily speechless. Her reference to “this world” prompted me to wonder about what other realms she might envision. It was both alarming and a reminder of the depth of thoughts that can occupy a young mind. Recently, she has been struggling with sleep, seemingly caught in the throes of a mini existential crisis. It’s painful to witness her fear, and I find myself relating to her concerns; life can indeed feel overwhelming at times.
Reflecting on my own childhood, I remember the nights spent awake, grappling with similar thoughts. I would sneak into my parents’ room, hoping for reassurance from my mother’s sleepy voice. Now, as a mother myself, I feel compelled to provide the comfort I once sought.
When my daughter first asked her question, I was struck by her earnestness, especially as she stood there in her cozy pajamas, her freshly washed hair glowing in the soft light. I realized that she is much like me—an overthinker who feels deeply.
I wish I had all the answers to ease her worries. The innocent child in me had once sought solace in rituals and beliefs, hoping they would illuminate the path to understanding life’s mysteries. Yet, here I am, a grown woman still wrestling with uncertainty.
In that moment, I decided to respond simply and sincerely. I told her that she is here because she is loved and needed. The world requires her unique spirit, her capacity for love, and her joy in simple pleasures—like cookies and family time. I explained that the essence of life can be distilled down to love and connection.
While I wish I could offer her more concrete answers, I find comfort in the notion that love—whether self-given or shared—is a guiding principle. Navigating the complexities of life is not easy, but I believe that love remains a constant amidst confusion.
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In summary, when faced with profound questions from young children, it’s essential to approach the dialogue with simplicity and authenticity. While we may not possess all the answers, we can guide them with love and assurance, creating a foundation for their journey through life.