From the age of five, I envisioned a future filled with love and companionship. I imagined meeting you by 25, starting a family at 30, and most importantly, experiencing unparalleled happiness together.
My journey has been transformative. Diagnosed with autism at the age of four, my life took a significant turn. I transitioned from a world of confusion about my limited speech to actively participating in therapies that shaped me into who I am today. Now, I travel across the country sharing my experiences and insights on overcoming the challenges of autism, often with you as my greatest supporter in the audience.
I promise to offer you unwavering love in every moment we share. As a child, I struggled with sensory overload and physical touch, but I have grown to appreciate affection, which can be a challenge for many on the spectrum. During disagreements, I’ll do my utmost to communicate openly and understand your viewpoint. If I need some alone time to decompress, I’ll be sure to let you know. And when we celebrate our achievements, I will always express how proud I am of you.
Our wedding day will mark one of my happiest moments, with you by my side. As we discuss starting a family, I will rely on my parents’ guidance, drawing from their experiences with me. I aspire to be the kind of dad my father was—supportive during both joyous and challenging times.
Love is something I have longed for. While it sometimes fills me with anxiety and butterflies, it also brings out the best in me. As a child, the notion of love felt daunting, especially after facing bullying. A classmate once told me I would be alone forever because I was different, and that remark struck deep. But I refused to let that define my future. I have had meaningful relationships and knew that finding you was simply a matter of time.
Thank you for accepting me wholly, with all my quirks, and for being the love I have always yearned for. Our bond is one of tranquility, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I will forever be grateful to you for that.
This letter was inspired by the eloquent words of Maya Thompson in her piece, “A Love Letter to My Neurotypical Partner, From Your Autistic Spouse.”
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In conclusion, love transcends challenges and differences, and it’s the shared journey that makes it worthwhile.