I’m a Supermom (And So Are You)

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by Jessica Thompson

Updated: Feb. 11, 2021

Originally Published: Aug. 25, 2010

Stepping out with my two-year-old triplets feels like a scene from a circus; it definitely draws the kind of attention usually reserved for grand spectacles. I often hear the familiar phrase, “You’ve got your hands full,” followed by the title of “Supermom.” While I appreciate the sentiment, I find myself a bit uneasy with this label. When people ask, “How do you manage it all?” I simply respond, “Just like you do — you just keep on going.”

The reality is, whether you have one child or five, whether they’re singletons or multiples, we all face the same parenting challenges. Dirty diapers get changed, empty cups get refilled, and scraped knees get kisses. Laundry gets done (even if it’s not folded perfectly), and dinner finds its way to the table. Somehow, we all make it through each day, often with a full roster of family members and (sometimes) an empty sink.

I often meet other moms who downplay their own experiences, convinced that their daily routines are a breeze compared to the chaos at my place. “I just have one, and it’s tough!” they say, or, “I have three, but they’re not all the same age!” They seem to think I must possess some kind of superhuman strength or have a secret formula for managing motherhood. Surely, they think, no ordinary person could achieve such incredible feats.

Though I usually downplay any notions of superpower, let’s start a new trend. Picture this: I dramatically tear open my button-up shirt to reveal a food-stained “S” on my tank top (a necessity to keep my post-baby body in check). Yep, you caught me — I’m Supermom!

You’re “just” the working mother of an infant, enduring four nighttime feedings before rushing off to the office. You thrive on mere minutes of sleep and a cold slice of toast. Somehow, you even remember to put on lipstick and wear matching shoes. You operate in a semi-daze, yet you still excel at your job, only to return home and start the whole cycle again tomorrow. You know what that means? You’re Supermom!

You’re “just” pregnant with your second child while caring for your first. All you want to do is vomit or sleep (or maybe both). Yet, you’re still on top of it when your little one is hungry and cranky. You handle the inevitable blowout despite the overwhelming smell. But breakfast gets served, and you manage to keep yours down. If that doesn’t qualify you as Supermom, I don’t know what does.

You’re “just” a mother of two under two, trying to keep a wobbly infant and a rambunctious toddler happy. Seriously, how do you keep one child from climbing the dining room table while holding the baby’s bottle in place? You somehow juggle it all without any time for yourself. You know how? You’re Supermom!

You’re “just” a stay-at-home mom to three little ones, like me. But unlike me, you’re leaping over baby gates with a toddler in your arms while chasing after your kindergartener who forgot her lunch box, all while your three-year-old decorates the family dog with permanent marker. You accomplish more housework before noon than many do in an entire week. There’s no napping for you, as someone always needs your attention. Just another day in the life of Supermom!

You’re “just” the mom of older kids, with one in high school and another starting college. You still tackle laundry and cooking, but now you’ve added managing car insurance and tuition to your plate. Your heart is scattered in different places, constantly worrying about your kids’ well-being. But do they realize how much you care? Nope. They’re too busy living their lives, thanks to Supermom.

Every mother is a Supermom in her own right. There’s no hierarchy here; it’s not about who has it easier or harder. Whether you’re you, me, or that mom down the street with the wild boys on dirt bikes, let’s all embrace our inner superhero. Tear open that button-down, show off your “S,” and declare it loud and proud: “I’m Supermom!” Because you truly are.

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Summary:

In this article, Jessica Thompson celebrates the incredible efforts of mothers everywhere, emphasizing that every mother is a Supermom in her own way. Whether managing a busy household of multiple children or balancing work and parenting, all mothers exhibit strength and resilience. The message encourages moms to embrace their superhero status and recognize their worth in the journey of motherhood.