As I sat by the pond, observing my four-year-old’s efforts to master flotation, I witnessed a familiar scenario unfold. During swim class, where swimming is prohibited in designated areas—including the dock—some parents seem to think their children are above the rules. Today, a mother, when informed by a lifeguard that her children needed to stay outside the buoys, retorted, “We need to leave in 30 minutes, and they just want to play on the dock—they’re not bothering anyone.” However, they were indeed creating a disturbance by running through a swim class filled with toddlers.
This entitlement appears to be on the rise, with many parents believing that having children somehow makes them exempt from rules, whether spoken or implied. The reality is, giving birth does not elevate your status above others, and acting like your child is the center of the universe only serves to alienate those around you. Here are some common situations where this entitlement manifests:
- Cinemas: Bringing your three-month-old to a late-night horror movie is inconsiderate. Your baby will inevitably disturb other viewers, and it isn’t a right to watch a film just because you wish to. Consider hiring a babysitter instead. Movie theaters are not designed for young children, especially during late screenings.
- Bars: While some establishments are family-friendly, many adult spaces should be free from children. It’s perplexing why parents would choose to expose their young ones to environments meant for adult socialization. Reserve those outings for when your children are safely at home.
- Dining Establishments: There are numerous family-oriented restaurants available; opt for those instead of inappropriate venues that are not designed for children.
- Height or Age Restrictions: When a venue has specific safety requirements, there is a valid reason for them. Arguing loudly about your child’s eligibility for an attraction only highlights your sense of entitlement. Safety should always come first, and no one is trying to inconvenience you by enforcing these rules.
- Adult-Only Events: It can be quite frustrating when hosts specify “adults only” for gatherings and some parents disregard this by bringing their children. If you can’t find a babysitter, it’s best to accept that your little ones aren’t always welcome.
- Public Transport: Bringing children on planes or trains is certainly allowed, but how you manage them is crucial. Be prepared to keep your child entertained and calm; fellow travelers will appreciate your efforts. Nobody enjoys a parent who seems oblivious to their child’s disruptive behavior.
The takeaway here is that neither you nor your children are inherently special. Strive to be considerate—both as a parent and as a member of society. Your children will benefit from this mindset, and you will avoid becoming “that parent” whom everyone secretly dislikes.
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In summary, being a good parent isn’t about making exceptions for your child but rather about respecting the rules that govern public spaces. By doing so, you contribute to a more harmonious community for everyone involved.