In the realm of aviation, many non-parents express their displeasure when traveling with children onboard. Common complaints include kids kicking seats, crying without apparent reason, or staring silently, seeking attention. While I acknowledge their grievances, it’s important to recognize that parents experience the challenges of flying with children even more acutely. Nevertheless, flying with kids is a reality that must be faced. Here are some insights into non-parents’ comments regarding children on flights, along with thoughtful responses I wish I could share if I weren’t so tactful.
“I was on a flight where a baby cried the entire time. It was incredibly annoying. How difficult is it to keep a baby quiet?”
Let’s set the record straight: it’s exceptionally challenging. Babies often struggle with ear pressure changes during flights, which can be painful for them. The last time I traveled with an infant, I received medication that seemed ineffective. Regardless, family gatherings often necessitate travel, and if my baby cries for an extended period while you glare at me, remember that family connections are also vital.
“Every time I fly, I end up behind a parent with a stroller in the security line. I nearly missed my flight. Do parents really need all that stuff for their kids?”
Consider this: do you require a neck pillow and multiple devices to keep you entertained for a few hours? Children, with their limited attention spans, often require extra items to keep them engaged and comfortable. One memorable experience involved my children getting sick during a delayed flight. Had I not prepared adequately, the situation could have been unpleasant for everyone onboard.
“I was seated next to a mother who nursed her baby mid-flight. Can’t she wait until after the flight?”
While this may have offended you, it’s no different from you snacking on chips or candy during the flight. Just as you don’t want to go hungry, neither does a baby. It’s essential to empathize with parents in these situations.
“A toddler had a meltdown on the plane. Parents should teach their kids how to behave in public.”
It’s understandable that being surrounded by a tantrum is uncomfortable, but remember that toddlers are still learning emotional regulation. Instead of reacting negatively, perhaps you could take a deep breath, put on your headphones, and try to tune it out.
“Why can’t parents just wait to travel until their kids are older?”
Are you suggesting there should be an age restriction on flying? Families travel for numerous reasons—visiting relatives, holidays, or even funerals. The world involves children, and they have a rightful place aboard airplanes too.
It’s crucial to recognize that traveling with children can be stressful for parents as well. So, the next time you encounter a child on a flight, consider putting on your headphones, engaging with your reading material, or enjoying some snacks, and accept the situation for what it is.
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Summary
Non-parents often express frustration about flying with children, but understanding the challenges that parents face can foster empathy. Babies cry due to ear pressure, toddlers have limited emotional control, and families need to travel for various important reasons. Instead of reacting negatively, it’s better to focus on personal comfort and understanding.