As I navigate public spaces with my toddler, I can’t help but feel the disapproving glances directed at us. It’s as if I’ve entered the room with a loudspeaker instead of a small child. Here’s a revelation: rude and disruptive behavior is not exclusive to children. For those who believe my toddler and I should avoid social settings, allow me to present nine obnoxious behaviors my toddler avoids—but you might not.
- Disrupt Meals for Photos: As I struggle to cut my child’s chicken while he energetically climbs on me, someone nearby decides it’s the perfect moment to request a photo to celebrate their four-month anniversary. When the initial shot isn’t satisfactory, they ask for another ten pictures—completely disregarding my now-cold meal. Meanwhile, my toddler is contemplating an escape to the nearest exit.
- Yell into Phones: Recently, I witnessed a heated argument on public transit sparked by a woman loudly cursing into her phone. It’s fascinating how the same individuals who share intimate details of their lives via their devices become irate over my toddler’s cheerful outburst of “Yay! Boat!” If only I could provide my toddler with a smartphone, perhaps his excitement would go unnoticed.
- Text While Engaged in Conversation: While my toddler may ignore me at times—like when I ask him to brush his teeth—he never pulls out a phone to text someone about his latest gossip while I read him a story. Unlike some adults, he doesn’t multitask inappropriately.
- Share Inspirational Posts: We all see it: your friend posts about how blessed they are because of a homemade breakfast. Meanwhile, my toddler just shared a Cheerio from his mouth. Honestly, I find his kind of sharing much more genuine.
- Gossip About Peers: Toddlers lack the complexity of “frenemies.” If my son has an issue with another child, he expresses it directly and moves on afterward. This straightforwardness is a trait we could all benefit from adopting.
- Occupy Extra Space on Public Transport: My little one doesn’t engage in “manspreading” or clutter seats with his belongings. If he takes up more space, it’s usually by snuggling up on my lap for a nap.
- Wear Ironic Apparel: That shirt featuring Curious George? My son genuinely likes it. He has no interest in ironic fashion statements, unlike some adults who flaunt cleverly contrived slogans.
- Provide Unsolicited Advice: Living with a toddler has its perks. He doesn’t inform me about the latest diet trends or how to dress more appealingly. His concerns revolve solely around snacks and playtime—refreshingly uncomplicated.
- Make Quick Judgments About Others: While my toddler often says things that may be deemed inappropriate, he doesn’t look at others and judge their presence. He has a particular fondness for older men with white beards, assuming they are Santa Claus, which reflects a level of acceptance we could all aspire to.
As you roll your eyes at my family’s presence in public, consider reflecting on your own behavior. We are all capable of inconsiderate actions. Perhaps with a bit more understanding and awareness, we can coexist more harmoniously.
For more insights on pregnancy and home insemination, you can explore this excellent resource: CCRM IVF Blog. Additionally, if you’re interested in home insemination kits, check out Make a Mom. For more information on this topic, feel free to visit our other post here: Contact Us.
In summary, understanding that both children and adults can exhibit disruptive behaviors is crucial. By fostering a more tolerant environment, we can create a more pleasant experience for everyone involved.