Is it just me, or is there something fundamentally troubling about a company offering to digitally enhance school photos of children?
If you feel the same way, then let’s dive into this issue.
How Did We Reach This Point?
How did we reach a point where retouching is even an option on photo packets for elementary school kids? Our children already face enough pressure from society, constantly bombarded with messages telling them they aren’t good enough, smart enough, or pretty enough. Now, we’re adding another layer by suggesting that their smiles could use some whitening?
When Do We Draw the Line?
When do responsible adults step in during meetings where these marketing strategies are decided? Someone needs to voice concerns, saying, “Hey, maybe we shouldn’t promote the idea that we can erase a child’s so-called flaws with a click of a button.” After all, this is not just about airbrushing imperfections; it’s about sending the message that kids should feel ashamed of their unique traits.
Consider Children with Disabilities
Consider children with disabilities. For instance, if a child uses a wheelchair, will the company offer to remove that from their school photo? What about kids who have lost teeth recently? Will they retouch their photos to add those missing teeth back? It raises serious questions about how we view and treat our children’s experiences.
My Personal Experience
I grew up with insecurities myself. In the 80s and 90s, I was a tall, awkward child with thick glasses and a noticeable gap between my front teeth. I faced relentless teasing, yet I had a mother who showered me with love and support. She instilled in me the understanding that beauty comes from within and that we should embrace our imperfections.
Empowering Our Children
Instead of offering our children a way to hide, we should empower them to be proud of who they are, encouraging them to stand tall against societal pressures. We need to remind them that they are fantastic just as they are.
To the company offering retouching services: I appreciate the offer, but I will not be modifying my child’s photos in any way. To parents contemplating this option for their kids, consider the underlying message you might be sending. It’s a far cry from the idea that one is perfect just the way they are.
Additional Resources
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Conclusion
In conclusion, let’s foster a culture that celebrates authenticity over perfection, helping our children embrace their unique identities.