November has arrived, marking Prematurity Awareness Month. However, for many parents like myself, the awareness of prematurity is not confined to a single month; it is a constant presence in our lives. Each day serves as a poignant reminder of the challenges we faced during our child’s early arrival.
For countless families, the journey of prematurity may have seemed to conclude when their child was discharged from the NICU. Yet, the memories of that time linger vividly—every scent of antiseptic, the rhythmic beeping of monitors, and the soothing motion of a rocking chair transport us back to those harrowing days. We became unintended experts in medical jargon, grasping terms like ROP, IVH, and NEC. The joy of kangaroo care was a precious reprieve, allowing us to finally hold our fragile infants without a barrier between us.
The NICU staff became more than caregivers; they turned into our friends and supports. I remember calling regularly to inquire about my child’s oxygen levels, blood gases, and weight. Each conversation was met with patience and compassion, even during the most stressful times. I can still hear the voice of a nurse reminding me, “One step forward; two steps back,” during a particularly frightening moment when my child’s ventilator tube was accidentally removed.
My son spent six months in the NICU, and although he eventually came home, the experience did not stay behind those walls. The tracheostomy, oxygen tanks, and feeding apparatus became part of our daily routine. The familiar scents and sounds of the NICU followed us home, embedding themselves in our lives. For the next few years, we navigated early intervention services, with therapists and nurses visiting our home to support his development.
I often doubted he would reach certain milestones—like walking or talking—yet he surprised us along the way. There were moments of despair and grief, especially as I thought about the twin brother he was meant to have, who did not survive. This loss is a daily reminder of the impact of prematurity.
November may be designated for raising awareness, but I don’t need a specific time to remember. My son is a living testament to the realities of prematurity. Despite the challenges he faces, he has emerged as a resilient individual, and I have grown as a mother because of our journey. It has instilled strength in him and courage in me.
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In summary, Prematurity Awareness Month serves as a poignant reminder that the journey of prematurity is ongoing, shaping our lives in profound ways. Each day is a testament to resilience and growth.