I have to be honest: sports aren’t my passion. I’m not concerned about where “we” stand in the league, who “we” are playing next week, or even the outcome of the game my child is currently participating in. My interests lie elsewhere—perhaps in the arts or academics.
That said, my commitment to my children’s sports experience is strong. I might come off as overly involved or protective, but my focus is different from what many other parents seem to prioritize. I’m not fixated on whether my kids are exceptional athletes or if their participation will lead to scholarships or fame. Instead, my main concern is that they develop into kind, respectful individuals. With this in mind, we adhere to our own set of guidelines when it comes to sports:
- Commitment is Key: You chose to join this team, so you need to honor that commitment. We invest significant time and resources into sports, so complaints about attending practices or games are not welcome. Your teammates and coaches are relying on you—so let’s make sure we’re all present and punctual.
- Full Participation: Regardless of the score, every moment on the field matters. Whether ahead or behind, it’s essential to stay engaged until the final whistle blows. Disrespecting the game is not an option.
- Exhibit Good Sportsmanship: If you react poorly after a mistake, you will immediately be taken to the car. Emotions are valid, but self-control is essential. We will uphold the values of sportsmanship, no exceptions.
- Avoid Blame: Regardless of the game’s challenges, directing frustration at officials, coaches, or opponents is unacceptable. If you feel that way, maybe it’s time to reconsider team sports. Focusing on your own performance is what truly matters.
- Practice Kindness: I may miss some of your big plays, but I’ll always notice when you support others, display encouragement, or assist your coach. Those are the moments worth celebrating, and they define our discussions on the way home.
- Show Gratitude: After every game, regardless of your playing time or the outcomes, thank your coach. They deserve our appreciation for their dedication—even when things don’t go perfectly.
- Clean Up Responsibility: Regardless of whose drink it is, take responsibility for cleaning up after yourself and your teammates. This is a simple way to show respect for your shared space.
- Appreciate Your Parents: Remember, we’re here to support you, even when it’s challenging for us. After sitting through weather extremes for hours, expressed gratitude means a lot. I may not be the biggest sports fan, but my love for you is unwavering.
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In conclusion, while sports may not be my personal interest, fostering good character in my children is my priority. By adhering to our own set of rules, I aim to instill values that extend beyond the field, preparing them for life’s challenges ahead.