Before embarking on the journey of motherhood, I was a staunch advocate of early nights and early mornings. However, the demands of being a mother have transformed me into someone who often finds herself awake well into the night. If you’re one of the many mothers who are familiar with the ticking clock at 12 A.M., take comfort in knowing you are not alone. Here are twelve reasons why a mother might be awake at this hour:
- Her unborn child has adopted a nocturnal schedule, joyfully kicking her in the ribs and bladder.
- Her newborn has decided that nighttime is the prime time for a concert, which manifests as relentless crying.
- Her infant is going through a growth spurt, requiring feedings every hour on the hour.
- Her previously good sleeper has reverted to waking up throughout the night for reasons that remain a mystery, which she attributes to teething.
- Her toddler has once again wet the bed, prompting a midnight clean-up.
- Her preschooler has awakened from a nightmare, seeking comfort and reassurance.
- Her preschooler is experiencing a night terror, leading to chaos that makes her question if her child is possessed—prompting thoughts of an exorcism.
- She suddenly remembers at 11 PM that she volunteered to bake four dozen cookies for the school bake sale tomorrow.
- She completely misjudged the time required to craft a costume for her child’s upcoming school play, with dress rehearsals starting the next day.
- Her preteen is in the throes of an existential crisis and chooses the witching hour for deep, meaningful conversations with Mom.
- Her teenager, who should be home by midnight, texts to say they’re running late, leaving Mom caught between concern and frustration.
- Everyone else is peacefully asleep, leaving her with a rare moment of solitude. Despite knowing she should have been asleep an hour ago, she indulges in binge-watching Netflix, convincing herself that the lack of rest will be worth it tomorrow.
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In summary, the midnight hours can be filled with various challenges and responsibilities for mothers. Whether dealing with the needs of their children or their own thoughts, these late-night awakenings are a common experience that many share.