Visiting the county fair certainly has its downsides: the heat can be oppressive, the food is often unhealthy and overpriced, and the overall experience can leave one feeling exhausted and covered in dirt. The crowds are overwhelming, lines stretch endlessly, and you often find yourself burdened with an array of souvenirs.
Yet, despite these drawbacks, children absolutely adore the fair. One evening, as we drove past the fairgrounds, the delighted gasps from the backseat caught my attention.
“Please, Mommy, can we go? Look at the ferris wheel!” one of my children exclaimed.
“No, not tonight; we need to get home and prepare for bed. You have school in the morning.”
While it’s much easier to visit the fair before school begins, this year it coincided with the first week of classes. Additionally, we are quite budget-conscious and prefer to minimize expenses during the week. Although we had family visiting, no plans were made for the following day. On a sudden whim, I felt compelled to embrace spontaneity and proposed we head to the fair. Why not shake things up a bit?
We ended up saying yes to our kids. We agreed to stay out until 10:30 p.m. on a school night for them to enjoy the fair rides. We acquiesced to the expensive balloon-popping games and the sledgehammer challenge. Clutching our cheesy prizes—easily found at a dollar store—we navigated through the fun house with its zigzagging stairs and monkey tunnel.
We indulged in oversized corn dogs and cotton candy, leaving the kids with ketchup-smeared faces and sticky hands. My youngest rolled in the fair dust after a spirited inflatable sword fight with his dad.
We rode the carousel and a tugboat, and witnessed a cannon stunt performer and motorcycle tricks. The kids were thrilled to see their parents laughing uncontrollably as we enjoyed a water ride. We soared high on the swings and let the little one fish for rubber ducks in exchange for more prizes. We stayed until the lines for the rides dwindled, savoring every moment.
With immense satisfaction, I consented to nearly every request for junk food and games. We returned home with stuffed animals, swords, full bellies, and the brightest smiles. The backseat buzzed with chatter, and my boys waved their neon-lit swords while laughing at the colorful patterns they created on the car ceiling. I drove home in contented silence, feeling a smile stretch across my face. This spontaneous adventure was a delightful departure from our usual routine.
Once home, we recounted our exciting evening before putting the little one to bed. I allowed my older child to stay up late and skipped bath time. We all crawled into bed, dirty yet blissfully happy. It was genuinely one of the best nights ever.
The next morning, the kids went to school with dusty shoes and ride stamps on their arms. To some, they may have appeared unkempt, but there was no cause for pity. Sure, the fair has its unattractive aspects, but for three and a half hours, we were free from all worries. We simply enjoyed ourselves. Despite the dirt on our nearly new shoes and the extra items we carried home, the joy we experienced was immeasurable. I hope my boys will always cherish that magical night when we dared to say yes. For more insights on parenting and family activities, check out this post on our other blog.
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