As a parent navigating the challenges of potty training, it’s not uncommon to feel overwhelmed. Recently, I purchased a children’s book titled Percy the Poop. This book features a character that personifies feces, with the intention of helping my child understand the appropriate place for excretion: the toilet.
This month marks a full year since my child began the potty training journey. A full year. The progress has been significant yet frustrating, especially concerning bowel movements.
The initiation of potty training came unexpectedly. One weekend, my then 2-year-old expressed an interest in using the toilet for urination. Initially, the experience seemed straightforward—I can count on one hand the number of times she had accidents. My partner and I were pleasantly surprised, thinking we had avoided the common woes other parents described.
However, the real challenge emerged with bowel movements. Despite knowing that every child’s potty training experience is unique, our particular struggle is centered around this natural bodily function. I never anticipated that something so universal could become a significant source of stress.
You might be eager to offer advice, but I assure you, I have explored numerous strategies to encourage my daughter to use the toilet for bowel movements:
- Providing various incentives, from small toys to larger rewards.
- Utilizing both toddler potty chairs and toilet seat inserts.
- Setting up a potty money jar, where successful bowel movements would earn her coins toward a new toy—though we’ve only collected a single penny so far.
- Creating a sticker chart with prominent characters that she loves.
- Allowing her to watch her favorite shows or movies as a reward.
- Engaging her with poop-themed books, including Percy.
- Demonstrating with her own underwear, hoping to illustrate the discomfort of not using the toilet.
- Offering the option of pull-ups or diapers for bowel movements.
- Spending time with her in the bathroom, whether for privacy or support.
- Encouraging her to pick out fun new underwear.
- Allowing her to go without bottoms at home to promote awareness.
- Even suggesting creative ways to “decorate” poop once it’s in the toilet.
I have tried positive reinforcement and even resorted to playful songs about bowel movements. Many well-meaning friends suggest to “relax,” implying that she will eventually master this skill. However, those who have faced a similar situation might understand my frustration. While I know that she will eventually grasp the concept, the ongoing challenges make it hard to maintain perspective.
As I clean soiled underwear for what feels like the umpteenth time, I remind myself that this phase will pass. Still, I can’t help but think ahead to the possibility of another child, and the inevitable cycle of potty training that may follow.
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Summary:
Potty training can be a challenging process, especially when it comes to bowel movements. Each child’s experience is unique, and while parents may try various methods to encourage their children, it’s important to remain patient and persistent. Support and resources are available for those navigating these hurdles.