As a mother, the start of a new school year can trigger a whirlwind of responsibilities that many refer to as “Logistical Overwhelm.” Recently, my eldest child began kindergarten while my youngest entered preschool, and the shift was striking—not because I was emotionally struggling with their growth, but because of the avalanche of organizational tasks that accompanied this transition.
This feeling of Logistical Overwhelm hit me hard when I received a stack of paperwork from the schools. Among the documents were calendars detailing school holidays and half days. I meticulously transferred these dates into my paper planner—there’s something comforting about writing things down by hand. I then duplicated the information into my digital calendar, ensuring I had reminders set for important events. The final step was to hang the printed calendars on the refrigerator and share them with my partner, Alex.
Next came the task of tracking after-school activities for my older child, including the days he would not attend. I reached out to our babysitter to confirm her availability and sought her assistance for those short days and holidays. On the advice of a friend, I even scheduled medical appointments for the kids during breaks.
I contemplated the time gap between preschool and elementary school dismissal, strategizing how quickly I could walk between schools. Questions arose about whether my youngest would nap better at school or in a stroller, and if I should consider enrolling him in extended hours. I made notes about which days each child would have lunch at school and which ones required meals from home. Additionally, I coordinated with Alex about his work schedule to manage who would take the kids for their flu vaccinations. Finally, I planned my own work week, ensuring I could handle any unexpected situations, like a child falling ill.
This was just the first week. I also attempted to organize the following weeks, locking in babysitting arrangements and assigning pickups to Alex on his days off. After several hours of completing this extensive planning, I exhaled—not in relief, but rather with a sense of uncertainty about whether I was truly prepared for the challenges ahead.
You might suggest using a shared app or digital calendar, but I find that technology often adds to the chaos. Instead, I prefer to glance at my paper planner regularly, allowing me to mentally prepare for the day ahead. Yet, with the increasing demands of family logistics, remembering every detail has become a daunting task. Who needs lunch from home? Which child has an after-school lesson? And who will be available to supervise them?
I can only imagine how much more complicated this would become with additional children. A close friend, who balances a demanding career with children attending different schools, confessed that Logistical Overwhelm was why she decided to stop at two kids: “Another child would require me to quit my job,” she shared, as she constantly juggles texts and reminders about her kids’ schedules and unexpected hiccups, such as forgotten instruments or traffic delays.
So, what’s the solution? Perhaps a third adult, skilled in managing household logistics, would help. However, the idea of polyamory doesn’t appeal to me. For now, my smartphone serves as my secondary parent, reminding me to schedule my own flu shot and prepare necessary paperwork for school.
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