Dear New Parents,

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As you embark on this exciting journey of parenthood, it’s natural to want to prepare thoroughly. Like many first-time parents, I too gathered essential items—a bouncy seat, a co-sleeper, and yes, even an array of charming toys. From stuffed animals to colorful blocks, we couldn’t resist their allure, despite knowing that our child wouldn’t engage with them for some time. Family and friends added to our collection with delightful gifts such as wooden puzzles and toy cars.

Now, after five years and two children, I’ve come to a significant realization: the toys we purchased were entirely unnecessary. If I could offer one piece of advice to my past self, it would be this: refrain from spending any money on toys. Instead, focus on acquiring these 25 indispensable items that will captivate your children for days, or even months.

  1. A stack of sticky notes, each one an adventure waiting to happen as it gets placed around the house.
  2. An empty tampon wrapper, transformed into a coveted treasure.
  3. A collection of twigs gathered from the yard, serving as props in an imaginative setup.
  4. The contents of the junk drawer, which holds endless fascination for little hands.
  5. A charming coin purse, a gift selected by my child during a dental visit.
  6. A handful of earplugs to be stashed inside the coin purse.
  7. A discarded page from an expensive pop-up book.
  8. My shoe.
  9. Dad’s shoe, complicating our attempts at a spontaneous date night.
  10. A soup ladle, repurposed as a magic wand.
  11. My toothbrush, also a wand.
  12. Kitchen utensils, like spatulas and bananas, all become wands in their hands.
  13. Every colander transforms into a vehicle for imaginative play.
  14. A spring from a broken toy vehicle, waiting for a restoration that may never come.
  15. My phone, its packaging, and any related accessories—these items are endlessly entertaining.
  16. Shredded pieces of paper, also known as confetti, that the vacuum cleaner will never capture.
  17. Anything from the fridge, which my toddler views as a treasure trove of excitement.
  18. Shoes intended for a future sibling, which have become a source of chaos instead.
  19. The bathroom faucet, where my toddler dreams of playing undisturbed for hours.
  20. The toilet, where one quick inspection is always necessary.
  21. Nature’s curiosities—rocks, bugs, and even a dried squirrel—until someone notices.
  22. A turkey baster, a versatile tool for imaginative play.
  23. A screen door, which provides an opportunity for exploration.
  24. A turkey baster creating artistic patterns in the screen door.
  25. An empty binoculars case, which is preferred over the stuffed bunny for bedtime comfort.

The core message is simple: avoid purchasing toys. Instead, look around your home for items that can spark creativity—like kitchen tools or things you plan to discard. The stuffed bunny and blocks? Forgettable. But a sticky note? That’s a lasting treasure.

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In summary, new parents, embrace the simplicity of everyday items that capture your child’s attention. Toys may seem appealing, but the true treasures lie within your home.

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