In recent discussions among new mothers, I’ve observed a prevalent sentiment encapsulated by phrases like #staylittle and “babies don’t last.” Social media and my circle of parent friends echo this notion: “It all goes by so quickly. Before you know it, your baby will hit yet another milestone.” While this is undeniably true, and those fleeting moments are irreplaceable, it’s essential to recognize that new memories will continue to emerge.
Let me clarify: I cherished every moment spent with my wide-eyed, cooing infant nestled against me. Yes, I shed tears as I packed away her tiny newborn outfits and occasionally wished for her to stay that small. But let’s be honest: if she remained an infant, I’d be forever mashing bananas and lugging around a diaper bag.
So, my dear child, let me explain why I don’t long for your baby days. While I would gladly relive those moments with you, I must admit that I don’t miss the sleepless nights, the endless cycle of washing bottles, or the effort of protecting you from the sun because you were too young for sunscreen that summer.
I no longer worry about your delicate little bones, feeling anxious every time someone new held you, fearing they wouldn’t support your head correctly. I much prefer your strong neck, your arms that reach out for me, and your legs that run and climb with confidence. I take great pride in watching you navigate playground obstacles and twirl gracefully in ballet class.
I don’t miss your cries for food, which often felt urgent. Instead, I now delight in your budding communication skills as you stand at the fridge, requesting, “milk, please,” in your adorable, high-pitched voice. It feels like a privilege to have a new little friend in you—an intelligent, funny, and energetic child bursting with imagination and independence.
Rest assured, I’m not hurrying through any moment of the present. I am fully immersed in today’s sweetness while eagerly anticipating all that lies ahead. I envision myself as that mom who encourages you in after-school activities, cheers you on from the sidelines, and shares heart-to-heart talks over hot chocolate topped with fluffy marshmallows.
I look forward to taking you to the movies, witnessing your expressions on your first roller coaster, enjoying manicures, and bonding over leisurely lunches where you excitedly share stories about your latest crush.
While your delightful newborn scent will always hold a special place in my heart, every stage of your childhood brings new challenges and opportunities that are equally beautiful. I will treasure a piece of each phase within me and embrace the ever-evolving you as we journey through this life together. After all, babies may not last, but you, my precious child, will always be cherished.
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In summary, while I hold dear the memories of your infancy, I embrace the joy and excitement that each new stage of your growth brings.