As we age, it’s common to find a newfound sense of comfort in our own skin, even as society often tells us otherwise. Helen Mirren aptly noted that while youth and beauty can come with anxiety and self-doubt, growing older can bring a liberating release from those pressures.
We’ve all experienced that moment when we unexpectedly see our own age reflected back at us through someone else’s eyes. I often participate in trivia nights with younger colleagues who appreciate having me on their team for my knowledge of obscure topics like ancient deities, classic rock, and pop culture of the 70s. Our evenings are filled with laughter, fried snacks, and sometimes questionable answers just for fun. Recently, when one of the participants forgot her wallet, I stepped in to cover her tab, playfully teasing her in the process. The waiter, sensing the playful banter, remarked, “It’s okay. Sometimes my mom has to bail me out, too.”
In that instant, it struck me: I was old enough to be her mother, and perhaps even the waiter’s. This revelation has weighed on my mind, especially after I recently shared a candid post about body image, complete with a full-length photo and my age—47. Why did I do that? Now, I can only anticipate the comments about how I look “good for my age” or the incredulity that I still engage in youthful activities.
It seems inevitable that labels like “feisty” will accompany discussions about aging. And then there’s the looming specter of menopause—an experience often associated with loss: loss of beauty, energy, and perhaps even vitality. The internet is flooded with lists touting the “benefits” of menopause, such as the end of menstruation and the relief from premenstrual syndrome. However, many of these lists feel overly simplistic and fail to address the emotional and physical complexities involved.
Moreover, articles celebrating women in their 50s as the new face of menopause often feature those who have undergone cosmetic procedures. While there’s nothing inherently wrong with seeking aesthetic enhancements, it raises questions about societal expectations of beauty and the pressure to conform to unrealistic standards. Why can’t we simply embrace 50 as the new 50?
As we navigate the journey of aging, it’s essential to focus on maintaining our health, well-being, and meaningful relationships. Investing in skincare or cosmetic alterations may ultimately lead to disappointment when measured against a cultural standard that is unattainable for many.
In conclusion, aging is a complex journey that can be embraced with a spirit of defiance against societal norms. Rather than fearing the changes that come with time, let us celebrate the wisdom and strength we gain along the way.
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Summary
Aging can be a liberating experience, allowing us to embrace our true selves while shedding societal pressures. Though challenges like menopause loom ahead, focusing on health and relationships can make this journey fulfilling.