There’s something uniquely liberating about summer. Typically, it embodies a sense of ease, relaxation, and enjoyment that seems to evaporate during the other seasons. However, like many others, I began this summer with a checklist of virtuous intentions—exercise regularly, eat healthily, and feel more confident in my swimwear.
Yet, as summer unfolded, I found myself indulging in cake and sipping Arnold Palmers, leading to an unanticipated five-pound weight gain. Surprisingly, I felt no regret. Instead of hiding under a cover-up or retreating to the shade with a book, I embraced the poolside with a drink in hand, radiating an attitude of indifference.
Choosing to forgo SPF 80 and a wide-brimmed hat, I soaked in the sun, relishing the warmth and light until my skin turned a lovely hue of pink. Although I was aware of the potential for premature aging—a concern that seemed trivial—I simply didn’t care.
By mid-June, I had abandoned makeup entirely, thanks to a glow from my natural tan. A mere five minutes was all it took for me to get ready, and I ventured out—be it to church, the grocery store, or dining out—without a trace of mascara. When I encountered acquaintances, I greeted them face-to-face without a hint of self-consciousness. It felt liberating because, quite frankly, I just didn’t care.
Instead of obsessively scrolling through my “Healthy Recipes” board on Pinterest for ways to sneak spinach into smoothies, I opted for hearty meals—tacos, spaghetti, fried chicken—and delighted my children with ice cream sandwiches and barbecue chips. Our family’s diet leaned heavily on indulgence, and again, I found myself unconcerned.
Allowing my children to nap wherever they pleased—be it on the couch, floor, or hammock—and staying up late to binge-watch shows like The Office, I embraced a relaxed lifestyle. I even treated myself to cake for breakfast on occasion. I recognized these habits were not ideal, yet my indifference reigned supreme.
While I didn’t completely neglect fitness, my approach was decidedly low-key. I enjoyed prolonged, brisk walks with friends, focusing on well-being rather than achieving a beach-ready physique. This summer has truly embodied a carefree spirit, and it has been nothing short of magnificent.
What’s more remarkable? It appears that others are equally unperturbed by my choices. Despite the junk food and relaxed schedule, my children seem happy and healthy, and no one has reported me to the dietary authorities. The new, confident version of myself has proven to be more appealing than I anticipated. My partner has not even noticed the extra weight; he appreciates the joy of spending time together at the pool and admires my natural look.
Regrettably, summer must eventually end, particularly this season of carefree living. My children can’t sleep in the yard indefinitely, nor can I continue enjoying cake for breakfast and Arnold Palmers at midday. Nevertheless, I aspire to carry some of this summer’s spirit into the upcoming months, hoping the more relaxed and confident me will remain present during future family gatherings.
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In summary, this summer has been a delightful reminder of the importance of letting go, embracing imperfections, and simply enjoying life as it comes.