As the new school year approaches, it’s common for parents to feel a mixture of excitement and anxiety. The end of summer can be a jarring transition, especially for children who may not be fully aware that their time off is coming to a close. Recently, I overheard a friend of my son asking if he had gathered his school supplies yet, and it struck me that my own denial about the impending school year mirrored that of the children.
It’s time to embrace the back-to-school season with enthusiasm and a well-thought-out list of resolutions aimed at making this year the best yet. Below are my resolutions for the upcoming school year, which I hope will inspire other parents to do the same:
1. Capture those first-day-of-school moments
This year, I will ensure that I take a lovely photo of all my children on their first day back. I am determined to create a memorable snapshot that I can later compare with their last day of school photo.
2. No more forgetting picture day!
I will mark the date on our family calendar and schedule haircuts ahead of time. Additionally, I will complete the order forms the night before they are due, rather than rushing at the last moment. This year, I vow to actually display my children’s school photos instead of hiding them away in a drawer.
3. Every child will know where their shoes are before bedtime
This simple step will minimize morning chaos and save everyone from the stress of misplaced footwear. I might even consider eliminating our sock basket altogether, rewarding the child who assists in matching socks.
4. I will check my child’s backpack regularly
While I can’t commit to nightly inspections, I will check often enough to prevent any unpleasant surprises, such as a three-week-old sandwich lurking beneath crumpled papers.
5. All permission slips will be signed and returned in a timely manner
I acknowledge that I may have overlooked signing one last year, but this time I will be more diligent and ensure my child participates in all school activities.
6. I will read everything before signing it
This includes being cautious about volunteer forms that might masquerade as permission slips, a lesson I learned the hard way.
7. My teenage daughters will agree to a peaceful morning routine
I’ll encourage cooperation and harmony before school begins, while reminding them that any disputes over items like hairbrushes should be resolved without drama.
8. Teacher gifts will be more thoughtful this year
I regret the hasty gifts I provided last year, so I aim to show appreciation with more meaningful presents.
9. I will maintain my composure in the mornings
Regardless of the chaos, I will avoid raising my voice, ensuring that my children leave for school in a positive frame of mind.
10. I will remember that the school days can be long and challenging for my kids
I’ll be patient and provide them with the space they need to unwind, offering support when they express frustration over homework or other challenges.
As we prepare for this new school year, let’s commit to making it a positive experience for our children. Embracing these resolutions will not only set a constructive tone for the year but also foster a supportive environment at home.
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In summary, as we embark on this new school year, let’s equip ourselves with strategies to nurture our children’s growth and well-being. A proactive approach can make all the difference in transforming the school year into a positive experience filled with learning and joy.