9 Realities of Exiting Gift Shops with Preschoolers

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Gone are the days when leaving an attraction simply meant passing through a turnstile. Now, every exit leads through a gift shop, or at the very least, just a few steps away from one. Because, obviously, you need a keepsake to remind you of your visit to the Museum of Unforgettable Something from 1865.

While every parent may have their qualms about gift shops, those of us with preschoolers bear an extra burden. It’s a special kind of frustration, driven by the fact that preschoolers:

1. Have an insatiable desire for everything they see.
2. Lack an understanding of what money is.
3. Are prone to public meltdowns.

As a parent, you usually face two options: you can either rush through the gift shop, looking like the most heartless parent in existence while enduring the screams of your defiant child, or you can surrender. Let’s be honest, more often than not, you give in. And that leads to a series of unfortunate events:

1. You’ll find yourself cleaning up whatever your kid picks out. Your home is already a minefield of toys, from Legos to plastic sharks. Whatever new item they choose will just add to the clutter. Here’s hoping they don’t go for the Toobe O’ Tiny Animals.
2. Inevitably, your little one will select the infamous Toobe O’ Tiny Animals. These miniature, made-in-China figures are sold everywhere and usually cost about a dollar each. They’ll vanish, create chaos, and somehow infiltrate every corner of your home, yet your child will never play with them.
3. Expect your child to gravitate towards the largest, priciest plush toy in the shop. You will find yourself earnestly explaining to a toddler why a massive five-foot octopus won’t fit in your living room, and that its cost is more akin to a week’s grocery bill than a simple souvenir. Your attempts to redirect them to a smaller version will be futile.
4. Decision-making will take an eternity. You’ll watch your 5-year-old dawdle among the shelves of trinkets, unable to commit to a single choice for what feels like ages. Your nudges toward a decision will do nothing to hasten the process. You’ll be stuck until hunger turns them into a shrieking, tantrum-throwing creature.
5. Be prepared for constant indecision. Every time you approach the checkout, your child will suddenly change their mind, often opting for something pricier or more cumbersome. It’s a maddening cycle of nearly making a purchase only to hear, “Wait! I’m not sure!”
6. Your child might have a name that makes it challenging to find personalized gifts. You’ll kick yourself for naming them “Daniel” when they demand everything with their name on it. Or you’ll lament the decision to name your free-spirited child “Breeze” when they can’t find any items emblazoned with their moniker.
7. The layout of the shop will be a minefield of expensive, fragile items right next to cheap, throw-able toys. You’ll spend half your time preventing your child from launching items across the room and the other half pondering how much of the shop’s profit margin comes from preschooler-induced breakage.
8. You’ll remember that you have Amazon and will mentally calculate the ridiculous markup on everything you see, usually around 350%. But it feels different here; you’re in the Museum of Things You’ll Forget as Soon as You Leave the Gift Shop.
9. You intended to educate your child about stingrays, but you ended up teaching them about materialism and consumerism instead. The moment they spot the gift shop, your sweet child transforms into a mini Veruca Salt. The best strategy? Sometimes, it’s better to deny their pleas for souvenirs too many times. You’ll still exit with a wailing child, but at least you’ll have managed to do so without spending a dime.

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In summary, navigating a gift shop with preschoolers is a test of patience and resolve. Whether you choose to rush through or give in, the experience is bound to be chaotic. But remember, you’re not alone in this struggle; many parents are in the same boat. If you’re looking for ways to make the journey a little easier, consider resources like Progyny for more tips on parenting and family planning. And if you’re contemplating your own family journey, reputable retailers like Make A Mom offer essential supplies for at-home insemination.