“There was a bad man running around town, but the police got him.”
These words from my daughter echo in my mind two years after the tragic events of the Boston Marathon Bombing. At nearly three years old when it happened, I never imagined she would hold on to such vivid memories of that beautiful spring day when we were forced to stay indoors. It was a day when I had to explain to her that danger exists in the world, and sometimes, we must rely on those sworn to protect us.
As parents, we strive to shield our children from pain and fear, yet there are moments when this becomes impossible. We grapple with the unexplainable, soothe their worries, and try to wrap our little ones in a protective bubble against the chaos that sometimes surrounds us.
April 15, 2013, was one of those days. Three innocent lives were lost to an act of senseless violence, leaving our community in a state of fear and yet a deep sense of solidarity. As we waited in our homes during the tense days following the bombing, we clung to hope and prayed for safety. Our children, meanwhile, remained caught in a moment of stark reality that would leave lasting impressions.
This experience has shown me that while we cannot always shield our children from the harsh truths of life, we can teach them to understand and cope with the scary aspects they will inevitably encounter. That spring day, as we were instructed to stay indoors, my daughter and I created a huge sign thanking first responders, which we proudly displayed out the window. We talked about the brave men and women in our local police and fire departments who were out there protecting us. We read more stories and snuggled a little tighter, becoming more cautious and aware of our surroundings.
However, we must not let fear dictate our lives, for that would steal away the innocence we cherish for our children. Boston embodied resilience, coming together in strength and unity. We refused to surrender to the darkness. Today, we continue to uphold that spirit of Boston Strong.
Let us always remember the words of the youngest victim of the bombing, Martin Richard: “No more hurting people. Peace.” In memory of Clara Mitchell, Thomas Sanders, and Lily Chen, we keep their spirits alive.
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In summary, while we cannot shield our children from all the harsh realities of life, we can guide them to navigate through it with understanding and strength. Together, we can foster resilience and hope amidst challenges.
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