Parenting can be a wild ride, and one of the most entertaining aspects is the sheer joy of embarrassing your teenage child. Just the other day, as I was driving my daughter, Emily, home from dinner, I found myself blasting “Carry On My Wayward Son” by Kansas. As soon as she climbed into the car, she shot me a look of absolute horror. “I can hear that music from a mile away! You’re so embarrassing!” she exclaimed. Of course, I couldn’t help but revel in her mortification.
It’s funny how quickly things change. When kids are younger, they adore your silliness. I remember those days of belting out Disney tunes like “Under the Sea” or even grooving to some classic tracks with Emily while driving her to preschool. But then, one fateful day, everything shifted.
I’ll never forget the grocery store incident when Emily was 10. A Lionel Richie song started playing, and without thinking, I began to sing along and maybe even dance a little. Her reaction shocked me: “Stop that!” she hissed. I thought it was all in good fun, but her whisper of “YES” was the beginning of the end for my goofy-parent days.
As she transitioned into her tween years, Emily became more self-conscious and quick to reprimand us for any behavior that might attract attention. By the time she hit her teenage years, even the most innocuous actions—like smiling or breathing—could trigger her embarrassment. Finally, my partner and I decided to embrace our roles as the embarrassing parents. After all, why not have some fun with it?
We realized that if she could unleash her own fair share of mortifying moments on us when she was younger—like the time she threw a fit at a festival, or yelled at smokers outside a Quiznos—we were more than entitled to turn the tables. It became a game for us, and the opportunities to embarrass her were plentiful. A simple pet name in front of her friends? Instant mortification. Showing up at school in sweatpants? Pure gold.
Just two nights ago, as we were driving home, I cranked up “Wanna Be Startin’ Somethin’” by Michael Jackson. My partner and I couldn’t resist grooving in our seats. Emily’s protests were met with more enthusiastic dancing on our part. “Stop! Please!” she begged, but we continued, enjoying every moment of her despair.
When another car pulled up next to us at a stoplight, I could see Emily’s face turning red as she braced for our next round of call-and-response singing. I took pity on her after a while and turned down the volume, but as we pulled into the driveway, I couldn’t resist one last attempt at fun. I cranked the music back up and sang the chorus, much to her dismay.
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In summary, the delightful, albeit sometimes cringe-worthy, experience of embarrassing your teenager can be one of the most rewarding parts of parenting. Embrace those moments; they’re fleeting, and you’ll look back on them with a smile.
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