If I had the opportunity to revisit high school, there are several choices I would approach differently:
1. Embrace Physical Education
I would fully appreciate the value of physical education classes. Daily access to structured exercise for fifty minutes, guided by a knowledgeable instructor, is a rare opportunity. I would eagerly participate in every sport offered, disregarding any past insecurities about my body. I would tackle gym class with the enthusiasm of an elite athlete at the start of a marathon. Let’s go!
2. Prioritize Friendships with Peers
I would focus on nurturing friendships with my female peers rather than getting caught up in romantic pursuits. The camaraderie shared among girlfriends is irreplaceable, and I now recognize that these moments are fleeting. Relationships with boys can be put on hold; the bonds with my friends deserve my full attention and commitment.
3. Appreciate Educators
In retrospect, I viewed teachers as adversaries, but now I understand their immense value. They dedicate their lives to a profession that often goes underappreciated, impacting students daily. I would sit at the front of the classroom, genuinely engaged in discussions across diverse subjects—be it band, drama, or even auto mechanics. The chance to converse with passionate English teachers about literature would be a dream come true. Math, however? I would still pass on that.
4. Embrace My True Interests
High school taught me that math and science weren’t my strengths, yet I felt pressured to conform. Today, I would confidently express my preferences, acknowledging that my passion lies elsewhere. I’d remind my math teacher that the likelihood of needing to calculate angles is slim, and I’d prefer to discuss Brontë novels with the librarian instead.
5. Connect with Diverse Groups
I would actively seek out friendships with classmates who were different from me, such as the artists, the introverts, and those involved in drama. I would be curious about their experiences and talents, wanting to learn from them. Many of the incredible friendships I cherish today likely stem from connections I overlooked in high school. Another chance to bond with them? Absolutely.
As my eldest child embarks on their senior year, I wonder if they will carry regrets or “what ifs” from their high school journey. Yet, I find comfort in knowing that college offers a fresh start—a chance to reinvent oneself, as they’ve stated. If only I could return to college, but honestly, it was perfect the first time (thankfully, no cell phone cameras back then).
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In summary, reflecting on high school provides valuable lessons on friendship, passion, and appreciation for educators. It serves as a reminder to seize opportunities and connect with others, enriching our lives in immeasurable ways.