As the new school year approaches, it’s time to reflect on resolutions that can enhance the experience for both parents and children. Recently, I overheard a child ask his friend if he had gathered all his school supplies. The response was one of shock and denial about summer ending. This resonates with many of us; denial about the impending school year can lead to scrambling for supplies, often left behind after the organized parents have already picked through the best items.
It’s crucial to shake off that reluctance and embrace the upcoming year filled with opportunities for growth and joy. So, let’s kick off this new academic year with a set of proactive resolutions:
1. Capture First-Day Moments
I will take a delightful photograph of my children on their first day of school—this is non-negotiable. I’ll even aim for a similar shot on the last day to create a lovely side-by-side comparison.
2. Never Miss Picture Day Again
This year, I’ll be proactive about school picture day. I will schedule haircuts beforehand and have the order form ready the night before—no more rushing at the last minute. I promise to display my children’s photos rather than letting them languish in a drawer.
3. Organize Shoes and Socks
Each child will know the precise location of their shoes at bedtime. This small act will hopefully reduce morning chaos. In fact, I plan to eliminate the dreaded sock basket and enlist the kids to match socks before school starts.
4. Frequent Backpack Checks
While I won’t check my son’s backpack every night, I will do it often enough to prevent embarrassing situations, such as discovering a forgotten sandwich weeks later.
5. Sign All Permission Slips
I commit to signing permission slips promptly. Last year, I neglected to sign one, leading to an unexpected day for my son at the library.
6. Read Before Signing
Rather than signing everything without a second glance, I will read the details carefully to avoid misunderstandings—some forms can be cleverly disguised.
7. Morning Peace
My teenage daughters will agree to a pact to minimize conflicts in the mornings. If disagreements arise, the loser will handle cleaning out their younger sibling’s backpack.
8. Thoughtful Teacher Gifts
This year, I will strive to improve my gifts for teachers. Instead of a hastily wrapped lottery ticket and Tic Tacs, I will aim for something more thoughtful, perhaps chocolate.
9. Calm Mornings
I will not raise my voice at my children before school, regardless of any forgetfulness or delays. Maintaining a calm atmosphere is crucial, as I want them to remember me fondly throughout the day.
10. Understanding Their Challenges
I will remember that school days are long and demanding for my children. Patience is key; I’ll provide them with the time and space they need to unwind after school, listening to their complaints and comforting them during tough homework moments.
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By embracing these resolutions, we can create a supportive environment for our children as they embark on another year of learning and growth.