As I walk into the park, I find my son and his friends sprawled across the grass, reminiscent of wild colts. They are playfully darting around, having just wrapped up a day of school.
“Your mom’s here!” one of the boys shouts at my son. I recognize him, but he looks so different now that I squint to see him more clearly. In fact, I know all these boys, yet they seem to have transformed from the children I once watched play on my lawn.
At thirteen, their appearances have shifted dramatically—faces more defined, bodies taller, voices deeper, and personal styles evolving. When they greet me now, it often takes a moment to recognize them.
They have matured not just physically but socially as well. Many of them have or have had girlfriends (can you believe it?), and they are well-versed in texting, Instagram, and Snapchat. My son, however, is still finding his place, often on the periphery, taking shots from a distance while maneuvering on his ripstick. I sometimes worry that he doesn’t fully fit in, yet there is a common thread that binds them more closely than their years of friendship from elementary school.
He is an athlete.
Despite their varied sports interests—baseball, lacrosse, basketball, football—they all share a competitive spirit and a drive to win. This mutual respect is a cornerstone of their friendships and rivalries alike.
Recent discussions surrounding youth sports have highlighted various issues, from overzealous coaches to parents behaving poorly from the sidelines, and concerns that kids may be pushed too hard too soon. While these issues are certainly present, they are more the exception than the rule.
As a parent of three boys, I am deeply immersed in sports, particularly Little League baseball. My husband coaches and takes pride in his role. I admire how he balances encouragement with discipline, fostering team unity while also supporting each child individually. He dedicates his time to guide and uplift them, showing commitment even when it means sacrificing personal plans. The boys look up to him, and even without words, their gratitude is evident.
As we leave a friend’s house, the cheerful jingle of the ice cream truck fills the air. Instinctively, the boys spring into action, racing toward the sound, their laughter ringing out as they almost stumble over their own gangly limbs.
These are wonderful young men, and I am grateful for them, as well as for coaches like my husband who provide them with invaluable experiences that foster growth and camaraderie during such a transformative time in their lives. These young athletes are not just teammates; they are my son’s tribe, standing together as they navigate their changing world. For years to come, I’ll witness their friendships flourish both on and off the field.
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In summary, sports play a significant role in bringing kids together, offering them critical life skills and fostering lasting friendships. These experiences shape their character and prepare them for future challenges.