Let me be straight with you—I absolutely despise homework. I dread doing it, I’m not a fan of assisting with it, and honestly, I wish it didn’t even exist. My son is in kindergarten, and before you chuckle, let me tell you he has a surprising amount of homework for his age.
Each week starts with a packet of worksheets that must be completed by Thursday. The instructions are often vague, leaving me scratching my head while trying to figure out what the teacher is asking. And then there are those additional worksheets that are labeled “please finish” without any context. My go-to question is, “Hey, Ethan, do you remember what you were supposed to do here?” But let’s be real—how can I guide him to finish these?
And don’t even get me started on the reading books, poetry folders, and the oh-so-fun “family homework.” Family homework? I remember kindergarten, thank you very much!
I may sound a bit bitter, but I’m just exhausted from the nightly battles over homework. I’m tired of introducing concepts that should have been taught in class only to find them on his homework. My partner and I both work, racing home to whip up dinner, only to be met with the homework pile. After that, it’s bath time, bedtime, and we do it all over again. It’s almost a surprise for my son on nights when we can say, “You don’t have homework,” which usually means weekends.
Research suggests that homework in the early grades doesn’t really contribute to learning or development; rather, it often leads to burnout. We end up in fights, with tears shed—some of which are mine. At this rate, by first grade, my son might just lose his love for learning. What kind of message does this send to a young child?
Let me clarify—I’m not against education. I’m a legal professional, I volunteer at the school, and I firmly believe in the importance of reading and writing. However, I question the value of endless worksheets and drills, especially for a five-year-old. And let’s not kid ourselves; as kids move up in grades, many parents end up doing their homework for them.
So, what’s the outcome? Learning becomes an afterthought.
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In summary, while homework is intended to aid learning, it often creates unnecessary stress and frustration for both children and parents. The balance between education and family life needs serious reevaluation.
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