Greetings, dear one.
As I contemplate our potential future together, I find it essential to share some insights that may assist you in your life’s journey, should you ever come into existence. While I may not have the privilege of raising you, my thoughts are with you, and I hope this collection of advice proves valuable.
- Explore classic literature; begin with A Tree Grows In Brooklyn.
- Treat yourself to solo outings.
- Find a passion that belongs solely to you.
- Embrace boldness in your decisions.
- Enjoy the simplicity of holding hands; it’s often more meaningful than it appears.
- Share your favorite books and albums with others; they deserve to experience them too.
- Attend concerts, even for artists you’re unfamiliar with.
- Fall in love frequently, but beware of heartbreak. Embrace your duality.
- Prioritize a well-fitting bra.
- Avoid driving past his home; it rarely ends well.
- Identify a personal trait that you truly adore.
- Take a road trip; they have a unique way of mending spirits.
- When at the store, flip items so the barcode is visible for easy scanning—thanks, Grandma.
- Be cautious of friendships; a girl without girlfriends may not be trustworthy.
- Relish every new experience.
- Celebrate your achievements, even if they differ from your peers’.
- Find someone or something to place your trust in.
- Master the art of saying “no.”
- Cats are not for you.
- Discover a lipstick that expresses your unspoken feelings.
- Create the perfect environment for napping.
- Remember, only you can narrate your story—make it compelling.
- You are likely more confident than you realize.
- Expect to encounter him again; it’s inevitable.
- Write letters to express your thoughts and feelings.
- Patience is a virtue, as Grandma Louise would say. I might consider naming you after her.
- Find a travel companion who complements your journey.
- Wear your scars with pride; they signify your battles.
- Resist the urge to send that extra text.
- Take the time to dry your hair thoroughly.
- Seek a female gynecologist for comfort and familiarity.
- Learn to enjoy solitude.
- Master basic phrases for travel: “Where’s the restroom? How much does this cost? That’s too much. Please don’t touch me.”
- Accept that not all friendships are meant to last.
- Understand that love can be chaotic; it’s both a struggle and a necessity—embrace it fully.
- Send your children to camp; it’s a valuable experience.
- Bend at the knees when lifting.
- Treat yourself to tulips; placing a penny in the vase will help them stand tall.
- Have a go-to movie that lulls you to sleep.
- Maintain both your body and your vehicle through care.
- Know how to handle both your heart and your car under the hood.
- Always have an exit strategy and a safe space to express your emotions.
- Cherish the joy in the voices you hear from afar.
- Collect stories and friendships—both are more enjoyable together.
- Please, do not drive by his house, especially not during the day.
- Remember, bangs will grow out.
- Shoes will always fit, but choose wisely.
- Gin can lead to trouble; be cautious.
- Learn every word to an iconic song; I recommend “Thunder Road” by Bruce Springsteen. I might name you after him.
- Pack more medication than you need for your trips.
- Recognize good intentions, even if the execution falters.
- Learn to make my grandmother’s kugel; it tastes even better the next day.
- Engage with strangers; some of the best connections can start in unexpected places.
- Practice gratitude; simply saying “thank you” can transform a moment.
- Watch Friday Night Lights for inspiration.
- Listen when others describe you; their perspective may reveal something valuable.
- Seek out a friend for tough love and another who will support you without questions.
- Never apologize for who you are; only for how you may have affected others.
- Uncover your unique superpower.
- When in doubt, refrain from action.
- Someone out there is always thinking of you.
- Familiarize yourself with your best friend’s handwriting.
- If you must drive by his house, do it at night: lights off, windows closed, music muted. And for goodness’ sake, duck down.
With all my love,
Mom
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Summary
The advice shared here is a heartfelt compilation aimed at providing guidance for a daughter I may never have. It covers various aspects of life, encouraging her to embrace experiences, cherish relationships, and maintain her individuality.