In our digitally connected world, social media has transformed the landscape of friendships and social interactions. However, I must confess: I struggle with maintaining an active presence online. I have a personal Facebook, a professional account, a Twitter handle, and an Instagram profile, yet I find myself overwhelmed and often neglectful of these platforms. The reason? My unpredictable toddler, a busy schedule, and the demands of everyday life.
I consciously avoid checking my social media in front of my child because I want to be fully present for her. I want to model attentiveness and shield her from the distractions that flood my feed. This is why when a close acquaintance, Alex, recently expressed disappointment over my lack of interaction on their Facebook posts, it stung. I felt hurt, frustrated, and misunderstood. Just because I don’t “like” your new profile picture or comment on your latest status doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate or care about you. It’s often just a simple oversight or a moment of distraction.
My awareness of your status updates may get lost in the constant flow of information on my wall. I recognize that social media has reshaped how we connect, and your desire to share life’s moments—whether it be a new home or a celebratory brunch—is driven by a need to bond and stay close. We all crave recognition and acceptance. I get it; I feel that same longing for validation. It’s disheartening when I pour my heart into a post and receive no feedback—silence can feel like rejection.
However, the idea that online “likes” equate to genuine care or concern is misguided. This concept is a product of our digital age, reminiscent of high school dynamics where acceptance was often measured by popularity. I’ve grown weary of that mentality because I found high school to be a challenging time, filled with insecurities and social politics.
I genuinely care about you—your life, your experiences, your dreams, and yes, even your birthdays. But social media has become an overwhelming sea of expectations. “Likes” and “shares” have turned into mere habits, often losing their significance. The absence of a like does not equate to a lack of care, and I want to clarify that your feelings of disappointment based on my online activity are misplaced.
Sometimes, I’m simply busy—playing at the park, preparing meals, or working. This has no reflection on our friendship or my appreciation for your life updates. My moments to connect online often occur in brief, chaotic intervals, like during a bathroom break. I doubt you’d want to have a heartfelt conversation under such circumstances!
Perhaps we can agree to communicate more directly, rather than relying solely on social media for updates. Texting or a phone call might be more effective methods to keep in touch in a meaningful way. I value our friendship and want to ensure you know that my offline presence reflects my care for you.
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In summary, the absence of interaction on social media does not reflect my feelings toward you or our friendship. It’s important to remember that genuine connections can thrive beyond the confines of digital platforms. Let’s make an effort to communicate in more meaningful ways.