As I reflect on my life in my mid-40s, I recognize that the concept of “coolness” can be subjective. Today, while I was tidying up my kitchen drawers (stay with me here), I found myself humming along to an alternative rock song that had been stuck in my head for days. I knew every lyric. Yes, I’m that cool. In fact, I genuinely believe I’ve become more awesome over the past ten years. Here’s how:
1. I Know the Lyrics to Every Panic! At the Disco Song
A decade ago, my playlist was dominated by children’s music. While I still have a soft spot for some nostalgic tunes, one of the perks of having teenagers is that my car is now filled with music that actually resonates with me, rather than songs about dinosaurs or trains.
2. I Understand Fashion Better
In my 30s, I often felt uncertain about what was appropriate for my age. Thanks to my teenage daughters, I now receive honest feedback about what looks great and what doesn’t (often with a hint of drama). I can’t imagine navigating fashion without this insight!
3. I Can Rock Dangly Earrings Anytime
Having grown up in the vibrant ’80s, I never lost my love for statement earrings. When my children were toddlers, I had to forgo them to avoid any accidents. Now, I can wear them freely, although I still rely on my daughters to help me avoid being too over-the-top.
4. I Enjoy Adult TV Shows and Movies
Gone are the days of watching children’s programming. I’ve embraced shows like ‘The Big Bang Theory’ and binge-watched ‘Mad Men’ on Netflix. While I’ve dabbled in more adult content, I still have to be cautious, given my younger kids at home.
5. My Bras Have Improved
The bras I wear now are significantly more practical. There’s no complicated flaps to worry about, and I can wear them comfortably without the concerns that accompanied nursing.
6. My Wardrobe is Spill-Free
One of the best parts of this stage in life is that I no longer have to worry about dried spit-up on my clothes. It’s liberating!
7. I Read All the Bestsellers
I spend a lot of time waiting in my car for my kids. This has turned into a great opportunity to dive into bestselling novels, expanding my literary horizons.
8. Fashion Trends Have Cycled Back
High-waisted pants, leggings, and off-the-shoulder styles are all the rage again. I’ve already rocked them all, proving that some trends truly stand the test of time.
When I reflect on the past, it’s clear that I’ve become cooler with age. Just as fine wine matures with time, so do I, and I eagerly anticipate what the next decade will offer.
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Summary:
Reflecting on the past decade, it’s clear that I’ve grown in many ways, from my music preferences to my understanding of fashion. With the help of my teenage daughters, I’ve navigated these changes with confidence. I no longer stress over the small things and embrace my interests, proving that with age comes wisdom and a renewed sense of self.