Are you beginning to notice signs of menopause? While symptoms like hot flashes and mood swings can be challenging, there are certainly upsides to this transition. Most women start experiencing these changes in their 40s. Here are four reasons to view menopause in a more positive light.
Growing up, my grandmother referred to menopause as the “change of life” in a whisper. When I was just seven, I asked what that meant, and I was told it meant no more babies and the end of monthly cycles. To my young mind, this sounded pretty good; after all, babies can be quite a handful. I imagined “The Curse” as a spell or perhaps a naughty term that could earn me a mouthful of soap. Either way, that change didn’t seem so bad.
Fast forward to today, and we’ve moved from hushed discussions about our bodies to mainstream advertisements for sexual enhancement products aimed at women. These commercials often depict vibrant, confident women engaged in playful interactions, suggesting that menopause can be a time of liberation and vitality.
Here’s how I’m thriving during my own menopause journey:
- Embarrassment is Out the Window: Let’s talk about uninvited hair growth. With my 40s came the unwelcome surprise of hair sprouting in unexpected places—think chin, neck, and even ears. I constantly check for these surprise hairs, and I once had a male coworker mistake one for string. My threshold for embarrassment has significantly lowered since then. After all, if this isn’t a sign of a cruel hormonal joke, I don’t know what is.
- Goodbye to Monthly Discomfort: Say farewell to the monthly inconveniences brought on by menstruation. No more cramps, no more hiding bulky feminine products, and no more surfing the “crimson wave.” While there’s a newfound freedom that comes with skipping the feminine aisle at the store, other symptoms such as mood swings and cravings for sweets remain. However, the ability to wear white pants without worry makes it a worthwhile trade-off.
- Feeling Hot All the Time: Let’s just say I feel like I’m constantly on fire—literally. Hot flashes hit like a wave, raising my body temperature unexpectedly. It’s a sensation akin to being a human barbeque grill. Instead of feeling embarrassed, I’ve learned to embrace it, and my partner interprets my need to shed layers as a cue for intimacy. Who knew menopause could spice things up?
- Revitalized Intimacy: Believe it or not, menopause has spurred a new level of excitement in my bedroom life. My spontaneous habit of shedding clothes has added an unexpected thrill. While the quantity of intimacy may have shifted, the quality remains strong, with some new essentials making their way into our routine. It’s interesting to consider how my perspective on menopause differs from my grandmother’s. Would she be surprised by my openness about these topics?
In summary, while menopause comes with its challenges, it also opens up new avenues for self-acceptance and freedom. For those navigating this journey, it’s worth remembering that embracing the change can lead to unexpected joys and opportunities.
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