Summer in the suburbs can often feel like a daunting experience, especially when it comes to swimwear. After years of pairing ill-fitting bikini tops with board shorts and using my children as a shield, the moment had finally arrived to purchase my first official “mom suit.”
I made the decision to leave my kids at home—trust me, do not bring them along—and headed to the mall first thing that Saturday. The journey wasn’t easy, and it was far from glamorous, but several hours later, I emerged victorious with a chic black one-piece that provides full coverage and gives the illusion of curves. Success! And, of course, a stylish cover-up to match.
After trying on numerous suits that missed the mark (looking at you, bikinis), I began to recognize some trends in what worked and what didn’t. While individual body types and gym habits will certainly play a role, here are some professional tips that helped me find my first mom suit without feeling miserable.
1. Supportive Straps
Support is key, particularly when you consider the effects of gravity. If your little ones are still in the phase of wanting to explore your clothing, you’ll want to opt for designs that include straps. I tried on a lovely strapless suit but quickly imagined my son yanking it down to say hello to the “nursies” in front of everyone at the pool—definitely a hard pass.
2. Full Coverage (Skirts Optional)
I must be honest; I was not keen on buying a skirted swimsuit. I’ve always preferred board shorts. However, I soon discovered that many adult swimsuits offer adequate coverage without looking childish. I even came across stylish skirted options that were far from the hideous floral designs of my youth. Sorry, Grandma!
3. Stick to Solids
While I appreciate a good pattern, they can often be too eye-catching if you’re like me and haven’t utilized a thigh machine at the gym in years. Opt for solid colors or color blocks, which tend to look more sophisticated. I ended up with a classic black suit, but don’t let my color choice limit your options. If they had a vibrant red halter in my size, I would have snatched it up!
4. Embrace Bling and Ruching
Surprisingly, adding a touch of bling can elevate a mom suit. I saw several chic gold clasps and tasteful ruffles during my search. The most essential feature, however, is ruching. This clever design element conceals those areas that might not have seen a sit-up in quite some time, allowing you to indulge in your child’s leftover poolside snacks without worry.
5. Be Realistic About Your Body
Finally, this is the most crucial tip: embrace your current body. Many of us no longer possess the figures we had in our 20s or pre-kids. Unless you’re a celebrity with personal trainers, it’s likely that your body has changed. But that doesn’t mean you can’t flaunt what you have! Focus on finding a suit that highlights your best features and allows you to feel confident while enjoying summer activities—whether at the pool or beyond.
So, where did I leave my cover-up?
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In summary, the key to enjoying your summer lies in finding a swimsuit that makes you feel comfortable and confident. Focus on features that support your body, consider solid colors, and don’t shy away from a little embellishment. Above all, remember to appreciate your current self, as this attitude will enhance your summer experiences.