Dear Jordan,
As you embrace the responsibility of caring for children this summer, it’s essential to recognize the challenges that come with this role. The attentiveness and understanding these young ones exhibit will often depend on factors beyond your control, such as their energy levels at various times of the day. You may find that early mornings and the moments leading up to pick-up time are particularly trying; these instances might make you wish to seek solace from your own family. Additionally, keep in mind that rising temperatures and lack of air conditioning can lead to crankiness—something you’ll have to navigate as part of your duties.
I trust that you have undergone the necessary training, including CPR certification and a thorough background check, and that you’ve supplied references. Rest assured, I’ll be checking in with the camp director before I depart today, just to ensure everything is in order. I assure you, my intent is not to intrude—simply to express my concern as a parent. You, like many teens, may view your own mother as an obstacle now, but in time, you will come to appreciate her guidance.
Your experience this summer will undoubtedly shape your perspective. Many teenagers who spend significant time with younger children find it enlightening—though some may decide that parenting is not for them after witnessing the chaos of a group of energetic kids. It’s fascinating how a few weeks at camp can provide such clarity. However, if you find yourself inspired by the experience, remember that true parenting is a lifelong commitment, as opposed to a temporary role.
I do not wish to alarm you with this letter; rather, I hope to emphasize the importance of your position. While I am occupied with work, you will be creating memories that my children will carry with them for years. It’s crucial to approach this responsibility with care. You seem warm and approachable, so embody that positivity throughout your time as a counselor.
If you do not meet expectations this year, it may hinder your chances of returning next summer or reflect poorly on any future applications you may submit. The power you hold to influence these children’s lives is profound—don’t underestimate it. This realization can be both exhilarating and daunting, so maintain humility in your role; your fellow counselors will appreciate it.
You will undoubtedly forge connections with your co-counselors, which is wonderful, but remember that your primary focus must remain on the children. They will look to you for assistance, whether it’s applying sunscreen or comforting them after a bout of illness from indulging in too many sweets. Is that really the type of memory you want to foster?
In summary, you are about to embark on a memorable summer filled with new experiences and friendships that could last a lifetime. However, the well-being and happiness of my children must remain your top priority.
Please do not misconstrue this as a threat; I am simply a caring parent wishing the best for my children.
Best wishes,
Emily, Jack and Taylor’s mom