As a pediatrician and mother of three, I often reflect on the significant milestones in parenting, particularly the evolution of how children address their mothers. I vividly recall the first time each of my children uttered “mama.” The anticipation leading up to that moment was palpable; their tiny mouths formed the words, and I was filled with overwhelming emotion. Mama. That single word seemed to affirm my role as their primary caregiver.
As they matured, “Mama” transitioned into “Mommy.” This title represented a time when I was deeply involved in their daily lives—changing diapers, nursing, and comforting them through sleepless nights. During this phase, Mommy orchestrated countless meals (most of which went uneaten), library outings, and their first experiences at school. Under the guidance of Mommy, they learned to read, ride bikes, and navigate the world, all while I remained closely connected.
However, one day, through a seemingly ordinary situation—perhaps an inquiry about a missing baseball cap or a request for a ride to a friend’s house—I found myself no longer being called Mommy. Instead, I became Mom. It was a subtle yet profound change that caught me off guard.
Recently, I’ve noticed my youngest child, who is significantly younger than his siblings, still cherishes the title of “Mommy.” He often expresses his affection with spontaneous declarations of love, reminding me of the preciousness of this phase. Yet, I know that it won’t be long before he too will adopt the more detached “Mom,” reflecting his growing independence.
This transition signals a shift in my role as a parent. Where Mommy was always nearby, tending to every need, the Mom will take a step back, allowing my children to explore, succeed, and learn from their experiences. While I will always be their Mom, a part of me will long for the tenderness of being called Mommy.
So as I embrace these fleeting moments when my youngest whispers, “I love you, Mommy,” I take a moment to absorb his words, letting them fill my heart. I respond with warmth, reassuring him, “Mommy loves you too.”
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In summary, the journey from being “Mommy” to “Mom” marks a significant transition in the parent-child relationship, reflecting growth and independence while evoking bittersweet nostalgia.