It has been 25 years—a significant quarter-century—since my primary concerns revolved around whether my physics lab partner was more prepared for finals than I was, and if my locker contained sufficient Aqua Net to last through dance team practices. This summer, I’ll be attending my 25-year high school reunion, reconnecting with fellow graduates from the ’80s, a group that might have inspired characters in films like The Breakfast Club. My years from 1986 to 1990 at a large, middle-class suburban school could easily serve as a template for Glenbrook North High School in Shermer, Illinois, complete with Saturday detentions.
During those high school years, cliques and stereotypes defined our social landscape. In my class of 1990, we had the quintessential jock, the studious brain, the head-turning beauty, the quiet recluse, and the rebellious spirit. There was the popular lunch table, the quarterback cruising in his sports car, the cheerleader zipping around in a convertible, and let’s not forget the band members who, as it turns out, had the last laugh—joining college marching bands and becoming the life of Saturday football games. We had geniuses, artists, athletes, and dreamers. Fast forward nearly three decades, and we will gather at a beach resort, reminiscing about sneaking out of windows, funneling beers, and lip-syncing to pop hits. The youthful facades we once wore will have faded, revealing the genuine selves underneath.
Life has undoubtedly transformed each of us. The passage of time has stripped away our superficial identities, revealing our shared humanity. As teenagers, we navigated a pecking order; now, in our early 40s, life has equalized us all. The trials and tribulations we’ve faced have reshaped us, turning the once-divided high school hierarchy into a shared narrative of growth and resilience. After 25 years of adulthood, the class of 1990 has received its fair share of life’s challenges. We’ve experienced loss, change, and the yearning for do-overs. Yet, we’ll soon gather to share our journeys—the joys and sorrows, the triumphs and losses.
Since we left high school at age 17, we have collectively faced significant losses—jobs, friends, grandparents, and pets. We’ve also shed pounds, inhibitions, and even fears. We’ve lost hair, pretenses, and some of our dreams. Along the way, many of us have battled illness and dealt with the weight of familial responsibilities. It’s likely that most of us have at times felt our courage, hope, and sanity slip away. However, the focus should not solely be on our losses but on the wealth of experiences gained.
We’ve accumulated wisdom, insight, and discernment. We’ve embraced new roles—parents, step-parents, and caregivers. We’ve discovered new careers, formed meaningful relationships, and found strength we didn’t know we had. We’ve triumphed over challenges, including health battles, and have regained our joy and confidence. Now, as we approach our 40s, we’re reclaiming our vitality and zest for life.
Twenty-five years ago, we walked out of our graduation ceremony as distinct individuals—the recluse, the brain, the beauty, the rebel, the jock. United by memories and dreams, we ventured into life’s journey. Today, we’ll reunite as homemakers, professionals, adventurers, and supporters. While our paths may differ, we remain fundamentally the same. Behind our roles, we are still friends, family, and companions. Together, we will create new memories, heading down our life paths, albeit in different directions. And until we reconvene for our 50th reunion, don’t forget about the connections we’ve forged.
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Summary:
The author reflects on the transformative journey from high school to adulthood as she prepares for her 25th reunion. While reminiscing about the past, she recognizes the profound changes that have occurred in her life and the lives of her classmates. Experiences of loss and growth have ultimately shaped their identities, leading to a reunion that celebrates both their individual journeys and their shared history.