Coming home to your little one is genuinely a joyous occasion, isn’t it? For children under the age of 10, your arrival usually sparks a wave of excitement. They often rush to greet you with a barrage of questions and requests: “Hi! Where have you been? What are we going to do? Can you feed me? Wanna play? Come see the bone I dug up!” Having a preschooler or elementary schooler feels like returning home to an eager golden retriever puppy—so full of life and energy that they nearly knock you over with their enthusiasm.
However, greeting a tween or teenager upon your return is an entirely different experience! After a while, they might casually stroll into the kitchen and ask, “When did you get home? Is there anything to eat?” If they even noticed you were gone in the first place, their first reaction is likely to be annoyance: “Where have you been?!” followed by some kind of demand or complaint. Having a tween or teen can often feel like living with a moody, opinionated (but hungry) Siamese cat.
This transition from the joyful puppy phase to the sulky cat stage can be quite distressing for parents. We often find ourselves taken aback. Sure, our friends with older kids warned us, but did we really think it would happen to us? “Not my kids!” we’d insist.
One major difference between cats and dogs is the training aspect. While dogs can be trained through rewards and consequences, cats require a different approach—one that involves a bit of negotiation and diplomacy, if they bother to respond at all. Cats have an innate sense of respect; even if we find their behavior frustrating, showing them genuine love and respect makes them more likely to comply with our, at times, unreasonable requests. Raise your voice at a cat, and it’ll simply look at you like you’ve lost your mind before ignoring you altogether.
The key to managing life with a tween or teen lies in embracing your new “cat owner” role. It’s essential to remember that with patience and care, that cranky feline will eventually grow into an admirable adult who appreciates you and might even greet you at the door.
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In summary, while the journey from puppy-like enthusiasm to cat-like indifference can be challenging, it’s a normal part of growing up. With patience and understanding, you can nurture your child into a respectful and appreciative adult.
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