Navigating conversations about public figures like Bruce Jenner can be challenging, especially when kids ask questions that catch us off guard. Recently, a mother shared her experience of driving her kids to school when one of them inquired, “Who’s Bruce Jenner?” Faced with the pressure of the moment, she responded with, “an Olympic athlete,” and quickly shifted the topic.
Such reactions are common, yet they highlight the importance of addressing the topic of gender identity with our children. It’s essential to foster an environment where open, age-appropriate discussions about LGBTQ+ issues can take place. As a parent, I understand that many of us may not have personal ties to the LGBTQ+ community, but it is crucial to raise compassionate children who recognize and respect diversity. With the increasing visibility of transgender individuals and the advancements in marriage equality, our children will inevitably encounter individuals from the LGBTQ+ community in various facets of life.
If I were to respond to a child’s question about Bruce Jenner, I would say: “Bruce Jenner is a well-known Olympic gold medalist. Now, he is also known for sharing an important aspect of his life: at 65 years old, he has revealed that he identifies as a woman. This means he feels like a girl inside, even though he was born with a body that is typically identified as male. Isn’t that fascinating?”
I would explain that Bruce, like some others, experienced confusion and shame growing up, not knowing that there are others who feel the same way. This feeling of being different is recognized as being transgender. Medical professionals now understand that this is a natural variation in human development, much like how some people are left-handed or have green eyes. There are medical options available for those who wish to align their bodies with their gender identity, but many find comfort in simply changing their name, clothing, or hairstyle.
If your child ever meets someone who is transgender, it’s vital to treat them with kindness and respect, understanding that their journey may have been difficult. Encourage your child to accept individuals for who they are inside, rather than how they appear on the outside, which is a principle we should apply to everyone.
It’s important to note that discussions about sexual orientation are separate from conversations about gender identity. Addressing these topics can complicate the conversation unnecessarily. By approaching the subject of Bruce Jenner with honesty and clarity, we can provide children with accurate information, rather than leaving them to learn from potentially misinformed peers.
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In summary, engaging children in conversations about gender identity, such as Bruce Jenner’s experience, can foster understanding and compassion. By providing clear and respectful answers, we help our children navigate a world where diversity is increasingly visible and accepted.