In discussions about household habits, you often hear the phrase, “The state of your bed reflects the state of your mind.” This notion suggests that making your bed can lead to increased happiness and productivity. However, my mental state might be a bit disheveled, and I am perfectly fine with that.
I don’t require my children to make their beds, even though it would be quite simple for them. We all use duvets, which eliminates the need for tucking sheets or folding blankets. When it comes to managing time and choosing priorities, this particular task has never risen to the top of our list.
Common Arguments for Bed-Making and My Counterpoints
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It’s Easy to Do.
Advocates say: Making your bed is a quick task that can help you organize your mental to-do list for the day.
I argue: While I appreciate the simplicity, I find it lacks a compelling rationale. I often use my shower time to mentally prepare for the day, and my kids generally don’t think beyond the next five minutes, so they don’t have a to-do list. -
It Provides a Sense of Accomplishment.
Supporters claim: According to a Naval Admiral, starting your day by making your bed gives you a sense of achievement, which can motivate you to tackle further tasks.
I counter: I manage to accomplish plenty in the morning—showering, dressing, emptying the dishwasher, brewing coffee, and feeding the cat. My kids, on the other hand, feel a sense of accomplishment simply by making it downstairs for breakfast after my third call. -
It Reduces Clutter.
Proponents assert: A tidy bed contributes to a visually appealing room, which can reduce stress.
I contend: The areas that contribute to my stress are those we use during the day, like the kitchen and living room. My children don’t always understand why I want them to tidy up until they see how much nicer the living space looks afterward. -
It Boosts Productivity and Happiness.
They argue: Research indicates that those who make their beds report higher levels of happiness compared to non-bed makers, who might struggle with motivation.
I believe: I’m likely among that 38 percent of happy individuals who don’t make their beds. My kids are happier too when they aren’t burdened with extra chores in the morning. -
It Prepares You for Unpleasant Tasks.
Advocates say: Making your bed is good practice for tackling other chores you may dislike.
I say: We already have enough unpleasant tasks in our lives—like brushing teeth and doing dishes. I don’t see the need to practice for more things we’d rather avoid. -
It Can Lead to Other Good Habits.
They state: Making your bed is a “keystone” habit that can lead to other positive behaviors.
I respond: No one in my family enjoys making the bed, and I suspect the idea of “keystone habits” is overhyped.
Interestingly, the article concludes by mentioning the potential benefits of not making the bed, such as reducing the presence of dust mites. Yes! That’s our family’s mission—keeping those pesky dust mites at bay!
In reality, there are countless areas we could improve upon to enhance our home and overall well-being. If skipping a minor task like making the bed fosters a more harmonious environment, then I fully support letting it slide.
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Summary
In essence, while making the bed is often touted as a pathway to productivity and happiness, it isn’t a priority in our household. We focus on larger tasks that contribute to our daily lives and well-being. Letting go of this small chore has helped create a more relaxed atmosphere for our family.