As Mother’s Day approaches, many families prepare to celebrate the mothers in their lives with various gifts and gestures. Fathers and children often flock to stores in search of the ideal present—whether it’s breakfast in bed with pancake mix, fresh fruit, or artisanal coffee. Some may wash the car, treat mom to dinner, or surprise her with concert tickets. Beautiful cards will be exchanged, and little ones will present handmade crafts, while teenagers may muster a heartfelt hug accompanied by a “Happy Mother’s Day, Mom.”
However, beneath all these gestures, what mothers truly crave is often overlooked. Personally, on this significant day, I don’t want to be left alone with a box of chocolates, the television remote, and a serene, quiet home. Nor do I wish to be excessively pampered or treated like royalty after a long week. There is only one thing I desire for Mother’s Day: reassurance that I’m doing this motherhood journey correctly.
This affirmation is essential. It can’t come from a bouquet or a candle, nor from a slightly burnt omelet served on a tray. Reflecting on the early days of motherhood, I recall the overwhelming moments of nurturing without any feedback, where the only sounds were cries and the only sight was a tiny, scrunched-up face. The first time my baby smiled at me, that simple gesture reassured me that I was on the right path.
In the years since, I have sometimes forgotten that validation. I need to hear that I’m succeeding in this role, especially on days when I feel overwhelmed. There are moments when exhaustion and anxiety from societal pressures weigh heavily, and during those times, I crave the words, “You’re doing it right.”
When patience runs thin and the demands of my children cause feelings of anxiety, I need encouragement. On days when I question whether my advice on relationships and life resonates with my teenagers, I long to hear, “You’re doing it right.” Even after countless meals prepared and the monotonous routine of parenting sets in, I still need that affirmation.
Every evening as I lie down, reflecting on my day filled with regret and shame, reminding myself that I could have done better, I hope to hear, “You’re doing it right.” When faced with the mess of daily life, I need to be reminded of the love and care behind it all.
I believe many mothers share this sentiment: a single day of acknowledgment is not enough. This Mother’s Day, if you are fortunate to have your own mother, reach out and remind her, “You did it right.” If you know a single or divorced mother, let her know, “You’re doing it right.” When encountering a young mother struggling in a grocery store, offer a gentle reminder that she’s also doing well.
In every conversation with fellow moms, especially those navigating the complexities of raising teenagers or caring for children with special needs, don’t forget to affirm them. And for the expectant mother in your life, instead of sharing tales of sleepless nights, offer encouragement by saying, “You’re gonna do it right.”
Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers questioning their efforts. Here’s a message from me to you: “YOU’RE DOING IT RIGHT.”
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In summary, Mother’s Day should not only be a day for gifts but also a day for heartfelt validation. Mothers need to hear that their efforts are recognized and appreciated throughout the year, not just on special occasions.