As a seasoned parent with over a decade of experience in the school supply arena, I’ve gathered valuable insights into what moms truly need during this hectic time. Beyond the typical items like notebooks, pencils, and folders, there are crucial supplies that can help maintain your sanity—especially those unexpected needs that pop up at the last minute. Here are six invaluable items that every mom should have on hand:
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Alcohol or Workout Gear—Or Both!
While my preference leans towards running rather than drinking, whatever helps you navigate homework sessions filled with multiplication tables is worth stocking up on. If a glass of red wine eases the stress of preparing for the school year, then by all means, indulge! For me, this season is about getting back to my workout routine, so I’m investing in new running shoes alongside my kids’ lunch boxes. Perhaps a pair of stylish leggings as well. -
A Fully Completed Science Project
Yes, you read that right! Dedicate a day during the summer to finish an entire science project, complete with a tri-fold presentation and a well-researched hypothesis. You’ll thank yourself when you avoid the frantic last-minute rush that inevitably comes as the school year progresses. While you’re at it, consider preparing a shoebox diorama or an “all about me” collage. Tackle these projects early to lessen the chaos later. -
Emergency Cash Stash
Last year, I found myself writing checks for a dollar more times than I care to admit. This time around, I’m saving some cash for those mornings when a child suddenly remembers they need a dollar for some unexpected school event. In those moments, it would be nice to just hand over a blank check to the school’s bookkeeper, wouldn’t it? -
Dress-Up Costumes
Visit thrift shops to build a costume collection for those thematic school events. While I appreciate the creativity of teachers, the pressure of last-minute costume creation can be overwhelming. By gathering costumes in advance, you’ll be less stressed when it’s time for your child to dress up as their favorite historical figure or literary character. -
Contact Information for Resourceful Moms
Every parent needs a few “borrower moms” on speed dial. These friends can be lifesavers when you forget critical items like soccer gear or project materials. If your child needs something last minute, these moms can help alleviate the stress. I’m grateful for my resourceful friends who never hesitate to lend a hand—whether it’s for homework help or a last-minute costume. -
One Important Phrase
This one cannot be purchased or borrowed, but it’s incredibly valuable: “I’m sorry. I can’t help with that.” Embrace this phrase with confidence. It’s perfectly acceptable to say no to extra responsibilities as the school year progresses. Prioritize your mental well-being and recognize that you don’t need to do it all. If volunteering becomes overwhelming, it’s okay to take a step back.
In summary, managing the back-to-school season can be chaotic but being prepared with these essential supplies can help streamline the process for every mom. From stocking up on emergency cash to finishing those science projects early, these strategies can help you maintain your sanity. Remember, it’s about balance and knowing when to delegate rather than take on every task yourself. For more insights on parenting and preparation, check out our other blog posts like this one. Additionally, for fertility-related guidance, Make A Mom offers excellent resources.