As a mother, I often find myself navigating the complexities of daily life—juggling work, school activities, and household responsibilities. Like many, I understand the appeal of a little relaxation at the end of a long day. For some, this means a glass of wine; for me, it’s cannabis. I want to share my experience and challenge the stigma surrounding this choice.
Every evening, once my children are tucked in, I indulge in smoking cannabis. Sometimes it’s a joint, other times it’s in the form of edibles, and occasionally, I use a bong. This has been a part of my routine for over 15 years, and I’m tired of feeling ashamed about it. Utilizing cannabis doesn’t make me a bad mother.
I don’t rely on cannabis to cope with a medical condition; rather, I appreciate the relaxation and comfort it provides after a hectic day filled with parenting duties, work commitments, and extracurricular activities. It’s my way to unwind, similar to how others might enjoy a drink.
Let me clarify: I don’t overindulge in substances, nor do I neglect my responsibilities or my family. I actively participate in the PTA, maintain a fulfilling career, and enjoy a happy home life. Sure, I might occasionally forget a dance class here and there, but I am a functioning, contributing member of society… who also happens to enjoy cannabis.
Using cannabis doesn’t compromise my morals or values, nor does it endanger my children’s well-being. Contrary to the belief that it acts as a gateway to more dangerous substances, I find it to be a healthy outlet for relaxation.
When I’ve shared my choice with other mothers, I’ve often faced judgment. One mother even declined to let her child visit my home due to concerns about my judgment—ironically, she struggles with her own substance issues. Consequently, I often laugh along with the jokes about wine-drinking mothers, feeling part of that community while also being a bit different.
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In summary, my choice to smoke cannabis does not diminish my role as a mother. It’s simply a different way of unwinding, and it’s time we embrace diverse parenting choices without judgment.