In this guide, we’ll explore the key aspects of Ava’s annual checkup, from A to Z.
A is for Active
Doctors encourage children to minimize screen time and engage in physical activities. Ava enjoys swimming, horseback riding, and exercises for a couple of hours daily, showing little interest in TV.
B is for Briefly
In the waiting room, parents are required to complete a standardized checklist. The first question asks for a brief description of your child. I felt tempted to respond with a witty remark, but instead, I answered: “Joyful, affectionate, determined.”
C is for Chomp
During the visit, a wooden tongue depressor was provided, which unfortunately led to some splinters.
D is for Development Questions
The checklist included questions like, “Seldom plays with other children?” and “Does not talk well for age?” I found the list somewhat frustrating, yet it had a mix of heartbreaking and humorous elements.
E is for Eat
Recently, Ava has developed a healthy appetite, necessitating a chew toy to keep her occupied during the visit. However, her interest in the existing toys has waned, indicating I should invest in a stethoscope-shaped one.
F is for Five Stars
Our pediatrician awarded us five stars as Ava’s parents. While it may sound silly, we appreciated the affirmation; self-doubt can be crippling, and this praise served as a much-needed boost.
G is for Growth Chart
We often wonder where Ava stands on the growth chart despite our efforts to feed her well. With her appetite resembling that of a linebacker, it’s puzzling what we could change.
H is for Happy
Throughout the appointment, the word “happy” resonated. Ava has a busy schedule but remains delightful to be around.
I is for Immature
The checklist noted, “Acts younger than her age?” and again, I had to check yes.
J is for Juice
The doctor recommended reducing juice intake and replacing it with more water. Ava isn’t a big juice drinker anyway.
K is for Kiss
While discussing Ava’s affectionate nature, she gifted me a sloppy kiss, which was heartwarming.
L is for Limits
My partner often says, “The only limits Ava has are those we impose on her.”
M is for Milestones
The developmental milestones were listed on the back of the checklist. After years of being told to disregard them, I finally felt ready to do so without feeling guilty.
N is for Nurse
The nurse was new and unfamiliar with Ava, which made it awkward when she asked questions and awaited responses. I realized I need to be more proactive in explaining Ava’s nonverbal communication.
O is for Open
Ava’s ear canals appeared healthy during the examination.
P is for Paleo
We’ve adjusted Ava’s diet over the years, and the paleo approach seems beneficial. She experiences minimal reflux and virtually no eczema now.
Q is for Quality
Ava’s doctor is outstanding, frequently asking, “How can I assist you further?”
R is for Relentless
Keeping Ava contained during the examination is quite a challenge. It truly requires two adults to manage her energy, though it’s always a joy to see her lively spirit.
S is for Shots
Ava received three vaccinations—flu, polio, and one I can’t recall. I held her hand, and though she tensed, she didn’t cry. It was impressive.
T is for Testing
We have mapped Ava’s genome but still lack clarity on her situation. Surprisingly, we are comfortable with the ambiguity.
U is for Uncharted Territory
Next fall, Ava is set to start kindergarten. Questions loom about her readiness for potty training and navigating the school hallways.
V is for Vision
Ava requires corrective lenses. She needs a new prescription, and her current frames allow her to pop out the lenses, so we’ll need another eye exam.
W is for Weight
Measuring Ava’s weight was chaotic; she wouldn’t sit still, making it feel like a circus act.
X is for X-Rays
Fortunately, Ava’s hips are in good condition, eliminating the need for any X-rays.
Y is for Year
Glancing at her file revealed the same checklist from last year. My earlier note stating, “Fine” contrasted sharply with today’s “Great.”
Z is for Zero
Currently, we find ourselves in a favorable position with Ava. Other than the vision test, there are no pressing concerns at this time.
In summary, Ava’s annual checkup was an insightful mix of affirmations, challenges, and observations, leaving us feeling optimistic about her growth and health. For more information on family planning and home insemination options, you may explore additional resources on this link, and for those interested in fertility journeys, check out this authority on the topic.