In an age where social media often dictates our perceptions of beauty and normalcy, the idea of getting a professional blowout and makeup application shortly after giving birth is both baffling and concerning. Recently, I stumbled upon an article from a well-known publication discussing how new mothers are now opting for hair and makeup services in the hospital. This trend seems almost satirical—who in their right mind would want to prioritize their appearance over their recovery after delivering a baby?
While some may argue that looking good can boost one’s mood, let’s be real: after giving birth, the last thing on my mind was whether my hair looked fabulous for photos. The reality of childbirth is far from glamorous. After my own experience, I can confidently say that my focus was on immediate comfort and care, not aesthetics.
Here’s a brief overview of what really mattered to me post-delivery:
- Hydration: After a lengthy labor, I was parched. Following my cesarean section, I was denied fluids for what felt like an eternity. I even resorted to wetting a washcloth just to quench my thirst. I can assure you, I was not preoccupied with how I looked while doing so.
- Food: Starving after hours of labor, I wanted whatever food could be delivered fastest. The makeup artist can keep their brushes; I was focused on satisfying my hunger.
- Catheter Removal: It may sound trivial, but the relief of having that catheter removed was euphoric. It was a priority I would choose over any cosmetic procedure every time.
- A Shower: After the chaos of childbirth, a hot shower felt like a slice of heaven. I was more concerned with washing away the remnants of labor than perfecting my hairstyle.
- Comfortable Clothing: Forget designer outfits. I was all about the hospital gown and mesh underwear. Comfort reigned supreme during those early days of motherhood.
Though John Barrett, founder of a prestigious salon, suggests that looking presentable post-birth is beneficial for mental health, my experience was different. I would have much preferred a moment to process my new life rather than worrying about how I appeared to others. The journey of motherhood is a beautiful mess, and I cherish my raw moments—sweaty hair, mismatched hospital attire, and all.
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In summary, while the trend of getting glam post-delivery might appeal to some, the reality of childbirth is about recovery and bonding with your new baby, not looking picture-perfect.