As I enjoyed a relaxing pedicure with my daughter, our conversation shifted from her excitement about kindergarten to the equally thrilling prospect of a mother and daughter discussing college. It was a poignant moment that made me reflect on the passage of time. I’m not one to frequently say phrases like “how quickly time goes by,” but there are moments that I wish could last forever—like when my daughter, adorned in her favorite rock star jeans and oversized cowboy boots, pulls her wagon with one hand while making a dandelion wish with the other.
As she grows and achieves new milestones, I find myself compiling a mental list of vital lessons I want her to learn:
- Cherish Childhood: Remember that your childhood is a limited time. This is when your dreams take root and your imagination flourishes. Enjoy playing with your toys and believing in magic as long as you can. You will have ample opportunities to explore the world later.
- Embrace Embarrassment: Prepare for some awkward conversations. There will be diagrams, unusual terms, and yes, a lot of blushing. One day, I’ll share jokes with you that will be hilariously inappropriate, but you’ll cherish those moments and understand their importance in your life.
- Seek Help: Don’t hesitate to reach out for help, especially from me. Share your joys and fears; you don’t have to shoulder everything alone. You’d be surprised at how much I can help carry. Remember, there is nothing you could ever do to make me stop loving you.
- Take Risks: Don’t shy away from trying things that scare you. Allow life to unfold naturally and be open to new experiences and ideas.
- Practice Forgiveness: Always make room for forgiveness in your heart. Holding onto resentment can twist your spirit in ways that go beyond physical appearance. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you give up; it means you’re wise enough to choose peace.
- Prepare for Heartbreak: Life may break you into pieces at times, and it might feel like you’ll never be whole again. But trust that you will heal and emerge stronger than before. Let your journey of renewal shape who you are.
- Redefine Fairytales: The fairytale you grew up hearing is real, but it’s not what you might expect. It’s built on respect, compromise, and the ups and downs of love. You and your partner will support each other through flaws and challenges, facing life’s dragons together.
- Be Confident and Compassionate: Whenever you ask me what I hope you become when you grow up, my answer remains unchanged: I want you to be confident and kind. All else will follow from that foundation.
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In summary, my daughter, as you journey through life, remember these lessons: embrace your childhood, seek help when needed, take risks, practice forgiveness, and above all, be confident and compassionate. These values will shape your future.