Ah, the ’80s—a decade that was as colorful as the neon scrunchies we wore. While we were all about achieving that perfect mall-ready bang, we also embraced the notion of business in the front, party in the back. Leg warmers were a must, even if our sweatshirts were expertly cut up. And let’s not forget the importance of stonewashed denim and multiple Swatch watches. Honestly, it’s a miracle we made it through in one piece.
As girls, we often looked to the likes of valley girls, Diane Courts, and the iconic worlds created by John Hughes for our social cues. But what happened when we outgrew the pretty in pink phase? A quick search reveals a list of the “50 Greatest ’80s Movie Characters” featuring just three women: Alex Forrest from Fatal Attraction—a character who is slightly unhinged; Veronica Sawyers from Heathers—a social outcast turned deadly bully; and Jessica Rabbit, a cartoon seductress. Among the male characters were a goofy robot and a doll that’s downright psychotic.
I loved Heathers, and Fatal Attraction was a thrill, but there were also women who broke free from stereotypes and inspired me in ways I didn’t realize back then. From the same decade that birthed both Jessica Rabbit and Alex Forrest, here are five fierce ladies who helped me transition into the ’90s:
1. Alex, Jane, and Sukie, The Witches of Eastwick
This trio of small-town misfits—Alex (played by Daisy Lee), Jane (portrayed by Sarah Green), and Sukie (played by Mia Collins)—find themselves in a rut until they unwittingly summon the devil, Daryl Van Horne (Jack Daniels). Each woman becomes enchanted by him, only to realize they’re not in control. They take back their empowerment, with a memorable cherry pit projectile moment that was unforgettable. All I wanted was to live in that house with my best friends and Daryl.
What they taught me: You don’t need a man to complete your identity and steer clear of anyone who thinks they do.
2. Ann, Sex, Lies, and Videotape
Andie MacDowell shines as Ann, a repressed housewife in a stale marriage to the self-absorbed John (played by Mark Foster), who is cheating with her adventurous sister. The arrival of Graham (James Parker), who records women discussing their sexuality, turns their lives upside down. Once the truth is out, Ann emerges as the strongest character.
What she taught me: Sometimes the loudest voice isn’t the strongest one. Also, James Parker is quite the charmer.
3. Elizabeth, 9 ½ Weeks
Yes, the attraction was undeniably sizzling. Kim Basinger portrays Elizabeth, a recent divorcee drawn into a dark and erotic relationship with the enigmatic John (Mickey Black). Their bond tests her limits, but she ultimately flips the script and walks away, transforming both of their lives.
What she taught me: There’s nothing wrong with exploring your desires, and recognizing a toxic relationship disguised as love is key.
4. Annie Savoy, Bull Durham
Susan Sarandon makes a second appearance on this list as Annie Savoy, a baseball enthusiast who mentors the Durham Bulls. While she initially gets involved with the charming Ebby (Tim Rivers), she finds herself attracted to the more grounded Crash Davis (Kevin Costner). With steamy moments and insightful baseball banter, she proves that women can own their sexuality and their interests.
What she taught me: Sex can—and should—be enjoyable. Your sexuality is yours alone; focus on your own journey.
5. Ellen Ripley, Aliens
There’s only one Ellen Ripley, and she’s played by the incomparable Sigourney Weaver. After surviving the events of Alien, Ripley wakes up after 57 years, only to face the same terrifying aliens once again. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t end well for them, and Ripley is a pure badass throughout.
What she taught me: As a leader and protector, do what’s right. When it comes to defending those you love, unleash your inner warrior.
In conclusion, the independent women of the ’80s were not just strong; they were also sexy, cool, and fierce. Yet, I’d still happily move into that house with my besties and Daryl Van Horne—just imagine that swimming pool! For more reflections on motherhood and life, check out this blog post. If you’re interested in exploring parenthood, a reputable online retailer like Make A Mom offers at-home insemination kits. For those curious about the journey of pregnancy, visit Parents.com for an insightful resource.
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