Why I Won’t Teach My Kids to Be ‘Color Blind’

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In discussions about how to guide children in understanding race and diversity, one must consider the best approach to encourage sensitivity while fostering awareness. It’s essential to recognize that people come in a variety of colors, and denying this reality could lead to misunderstandings rather than enlightenment.

A memorable experience occurred during a gathering of parents with young children, where we tackled the topic of race and diversity. Many backgrounds were represented, and the conversation was initially tense, especially for someone like me, a Caucasian man. A common phrase promoting equality surfaced: “We’re all the same.” However, one parent wisely pointed out, “But we’re not.” This realization shifted the tone of our discussion.

Promoting the idea of color blindness to children can inadvertently be a disservice. Children should be made aware of differences in size, shape, talents, and experiences, rather than being taught to ignore them. Embracing our diversity allows for a richer, more inclusive understanding of the world. While it’s true that categorizing people by race can be problematic, the acknowledgment of our differences should be framed positively. It’s not about the differences themselves but rather how we recognize, respect, and engage with them.

During our conversation, we noted that while society has often grouped individuals based on skin color, the reality is that color exists on a spectrum. For instance, I explained to my kids in simple terms that my skin differs from theirs and their mother’s, even though we may all be broadly classified as “white.” This distinction is valid and should be discussed openly without shame.

A month later, while shopping with my daughter, she innocently asked why a man in line appeared “purple.” My initial embarrassment quickly dissipated as he responded with a smile, saying, “That’s how God made me.” This moment highlighted that the terminology we use to describe ourselves is subjective and can be viewed positively.

In summary, teaching children to recognize and appreciate the spectrum of human color, rather than ignoring it, equips them for a more inclusive and understanding life. Acknowledging our differences is a vital step towards fostering empathy and respect among all individuals.

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