Many expectant mothers often tell me they’ve watched shows like A Birth Story to prepare for childbirth, akin to saying they watched a fairy tale to understand marriage. In truth, the experience of labor is far more complex than a brief, dramatized segment of reality TV!
A common misconception is that many women enter labor with the firm belief they will opt for an epidural, leading them to be unprepared for the pain that accompanies labor. Unfortunately, this isn’t the case. Here’s what you need to know about experiencing pain during childbirth:
1. Childbirth Pain is Nearly Universal
Almost every woman who gives birth will experience pain at some point, even if an epidural is administered. This is primarily due to the fact that epidurals are typically given once a woman is in active labor, which is defined as being four centimeters dilated. Why is this measurement significant? Research indicates that women who wait until this stage to receive an epidural are less likely to require unnecessary cesarean sections — something you definitely want to avoid.
How long will it take to reach that crucial 4 centimeters? It’s possible to endure hours, or even days, of contractions before hitting that milestone. These contractions can feel quite intense, and standard IV pain medications are only effective for a short period. Thus, it’s likely you will experience a significant amount of discomfort before receiving your epidural.
2. Epidurals Are Not Always Fully Effective
An epidural involves the insertion of a long needle into a tiny space in your spinal column, often without you feeling it thanks to prior numbing. A thin catheter is then placed to continuously deliver pain relief. Ideally, this should numb pain in a balanced manner across your abdomen and legs. However, in about 5-8% of cases, the pain relief may not be evenly distributed.
Due to individual anatomy, the catheter could be positioned in a way that leaves one side numb while the other experiences labor pains. Nurses often attempt to reposition you to alleviate this issue, but it doesn’t always yield perfect results. You may also encounter “windows,” specific areas on your body that remain sensitive despite the epidural.
3. Epidurals May Fall Short During the Pushing Stage
A distressing realization for many women is that when it’s time to push, the epidural may not provide sufficient relief. This happens because the nerves affected by the descending fetal head may not respond to the medication. Adding more medication could hinder your ability to push effectively without alleviating pain. Unfortunately, the only option at that point is to push the baby out.
Coping with Labor Pain
Understanding what to expect regarding pain during labor can empower you to prepare adequately, which is why I recommend attending childbirth classes. Modern birthing classes focus on relaxed breathing techniques that enhance your sense of control during this overwhelming experience. You will also learn about the birthing process and the various medical procedures that may be performed, as well as what to expect during the initial days at home with your newborn.
I often liken labor to swimming in a turbulent ocean. Just as waves can overwhelm you, so can labor pains. Our instinct is to flee from pain, but labor is a unique kind of discomfort that can intensify with tension. Relaxation can be your best ally in navigating this natural process.
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Summary
Childbirth pain is a universal experience for women, even with the use of epidurals. While these pain relief methods can be effective, they are not foolproof and may not provide complete relief during labor and delivery. Being informed about the realities of pain in childbirth can help expectant mothers prepare both mentally and physically. Engaging in childbirth classes can equip you with valuable techniques to manage discomfort and enhance your overall experience.