By: Sarah Thompson
Do you remember the thrill of the last school bell ringing, signifying the start of summer? Back when summer vacation meant freedom and fun, not the overwhelming chaos it can feel like as an adult? I can still picture myself tossing my backpack aside, dashing across fields, and skipping showers because I was too busy swimming at the local pond. Ah, those were the days!
Teenage summers weren’t too shabby either. I juggled a job while somehow finding the energy to hang out with friends late into the night, cruising around and blasting tunes. Where’s that youthful energy now? It’s likely lost somewhere between scrubbing the kitchen counter and vacuuming the dirt my kids track in every single day. And let’s not even get started on my daily grocery trips, which seem to revolve around restocking the never-ending supply of toilet paper and cheese sticks.
Let’s be real—being an adult during the summer can be a drag. There’s no automatic vacation just because the sun is shining. A parent’s schedule doesn’t slow down from May to September just because the kids are out of school. In fact, it’s the opposite. With the little ones home, my responsibilities ramp up as they demand my attention in ways they don’t during the school year. If I hear my son peer into the fridge and declare there’s “no food” one more time, I might just lose it. Between constant wardrobe changes due to wet swimsuits and reminding my kids to pick up after themselves, I feel like I’m juggling a circus act—only without the applause.
I find myself shuttling my kids to endless summer camps, dishing out cash for ice cream cones, and somehow managing to host a few extra kids who seem to appear out of nowhere, all while trying to keep my sanity intact. I know I agreed to those playdates, but it was probably while I was scrolling through social media, zoning out to their requests.
Yet, amidst the chaos, summer does have its moments of joy. Occasionally, a familiar scent in the air or a scene with my kids will transport me back to my own carefree summers, reminiscent of running through sprinklers and drifting off to sleep with the whir of a fan in the background. Those sun-drenched days were filled with adventure, and I’m doing my best to give my own children that same freedom, even if it means sacrificing a bit of my own.
Perhaps those nostalgic feelings are a gentle reminder to slow down and savor some of the summer magic for myself. That is, until I’m jolted back to reality by the sight of my vacuum cleaner waiting for me, or yet another grocery run to replenish our supplies. But this time, I’ll be sure to stock up on ingredients for refreshing mojitos—now that sounds like a vacation to me.
So, fire up those sprinklers, kids!
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In summary, summer as an adult may not be as carefree as it once was, but with a little creativity and a splash of nostalgia, we can still find the joy in this season, even amidst the chaos.
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