The registration is complete, the fees have been paid, and there’s no turning back now. Anxiety and worry may be creeping in as you prepare for your child’s first sleepaway camp experience. This milestone can be both exhilarating and nerve-wracking, not just for your child but for you as well. The initial summer is particularly significant, as kids begin to learn independence and responsibility in a supportive environment. My son, Lucas, was all set to go last year, but I found it far more challenging to let go than he did. After a decade of prioritizing my family, the thought of one child leaving felt like a mini empty-nest syndrome.
As D-Day approached, Lucas expressed some trepidation, saying, “I don’t know if I can get on the bus.” Internally, I wanted to tell him to stay home, but instead, I reassured him that many other kids were feeling the same way and that it would all work out once he arrived. With a mix of nerves and excitement, he boarded the bus, and I did what any devoted parent would do: took my daughter to a morning movie, indulged in popcorn and candy, and shed a few tears while watching the film.
During the weeks that followed, I found myself obsessively refreshing my computer for photos of him and eagerly awaiting that first letter. I won’t deny the tears that accompanied every letter I received. However, we all emerged from the experience changed for the better. Lucas thrived, and my daughter enjoyed her time as the sole focus of my attention. If you’re about to embark on this journey, here are some strategies to help you and your child transition smoothly.
Before the Summer…
- Selecting the Right Camp: With numerous options available—co-ed, single-gender, close to home, or far away—it can be overwhelming. A wise camp director once told me, “Ultimately, they’re just cabins in the woods.” Identify your top priorities, visit a few camps, and trust your intuition. As long as the camp aligns with your essentials, you’ll be in good shape.
- Connect with Local Campers: A familiar face can ease your child’s transition. Reach out to returning campers in your area to gain insider knowledge that isn’t included in the camp materials. This enables you to pack extra items in advance and lessen the burden on your child during the bus ride.
- Stick to the Essentials List: Follow the camp’s list of necessary items closely. Use well-worn clothes and gear, as there’s no guarantee what condition they’ll return in. For items you do care about, make sure to label them properly using resources like namebubbles.com. However, do consider allowing your child to have one trendy item that all the kids are sporting—this can help them feel included.
Once They’re There…
- Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff: The camp staff will handle most of the daily necessities like sunblock and hygiene. Your child might return with a tan and a bit of dirt, but a good wash will take care of it.
- Weight Changes Are Normal: Camp involves physical activity, and your child may lose weight initially due to increased exercise. If there are concerns about eating habits, communicate with the camp staff. Otherwise, rest assured that they will likely gain weight back once home.
On Visiting Day…
- Ask Thoughtful Questions: Instead of asking if they’re okay, focus on more specific inquiries about their experiences. Avoid overwhelming them with too many questions right away; a simple “Are you cool?” suffices.
- Limit Treats: Resist the urge to transform your car into a candy store. Check the camp’s candy policy, and bring a small treat to share with the bunk instead.
- Avoid Inspecting Their Space: Both cubbies and bathrooms will be messy. Spare yourself the stress and skip the inspection.
- Depart Quickly: When it’s time to leave, do so promptly. Lingering can make it harder for your child to adjust.
At Home…
- Give Them Space: Some children struggle with reintegration after camp. Lucas came home seamlessly, but for others, it may take time. After a couple of months, schedule a relaxed dinner to discuss their experiences while they’re still fresh in their minds. The key question is whether they want to return next year, which Lucas eagerly affirmed.
In summary, sleepaway camp is not only a chance for children to grow more independent but also an opportunity for parents to gain confidence in letting go. You will get through this, and both you and your child will be stronger for it.
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