Dear Daughter,
As you approach your eighteenth birthday (which feels like ages away), I wanted to take a moment to share some thoughts with you. You may be in that phase of life where you see me as someone who’s completely out of touch, but I hope you’ll humor me for a bit.
By the time you read this, I might be navigating the ups and downs of life while you’re experiencing your own journey into adulthood. So, let’s tackle some important advice I wish someone had shared with me when I was your age.
Have Fun, But Be Wise
First and foremost, don’t shy away from having fun. Enjoy nights out with friends and let loose every now and then, but remember to make wise choices. Avoid risky situations, like wandering home alone after dark or making impulsive decisions about relationships when you’ve had one too many drinks. While it might seem tempting to chase after the hottest guy in the room, remember that attractiveness can come with its own set of issues, like unexpected health concerns. Trust me, waking up with a hangover is far more manageable than dealing with regrets that linger.
Cherish Your Friendships
Speaking of friendships, cherish the bonds you create in your twenties. Those carefree days of hanging out, laughing, and enjoying each other’s company will become cherished memories. While you may find joy in parenting and life’s responsibilities later on, nothing quite compares to the thrill of youthful adventures.
Choose Your Career Wisely
Now let’s talk about your career path. It’s crucial to choose something that you’re passionate about. And while it’s important to have dreams, remember to consider the practical side of things too. If you envision a future with a family, seek out careers that offer flexibility, such as remote work opportunities. Certain professions demand a significant commitment, and balancing work and family life can be challenging.
Learn from Your Relationships
On the topic of relationships, whether you find love with a man or a woman, you might encounter your fair share of difficulties. Don’t be disheartened if someone doesn’t treat you right. Each experience, even the painful ones, teaches valuable lessons about what you truly desire in a partner. One day, when you’re looking for someone to embrace you in all your imperfect glory, you’ll want a companion who appreciates you just as you are.
I’m Always Here for You
Finally, always remember that no matter the distance or the silence, I’m here for you. You can confide in me about anything—trust that I’ve likely faced similar challenges, even if I haven’t shared them. I may sometimes feel overwhelmed, but I’ll always be your support, ready with a comforting presence, whether it’s a glass of something strong or a sweet treat to share.
With all my love,
Mom (or whatever nickname you’ve come to use!)